My boyfriend cheated on me with my cousin, and a girl overseas, the thing is wev been together 3years today and have a beautiful 9month old baby girl, we've had serious relationship troubles over this but have stayed together for our daughter, i'v gone interstate for a month to sort my head out, and find my self not missing him anymore, is it over?
2006-11-23 04:02:55 · 24 answers · asked by jenn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way My cousin and I have had 3 brawls since then and xmas and family ventures arn't quite the same anymore.....
2006-11-23 04:08:06 · update #1
.......Yep! Don't stay together just for your kid, 'cos then you wont be happy. As long as he stills pays his way for her - its pretty much the same thing apart you dont live together - is it not?!
2006-11-23 04:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you or your boyfriend, but if ANYONE disrespects you like this, they are not worth it. Your daughter and yourself will be much happier in a stress free environment than hearing parents fight or watching Mommy cry!! I feel so sad when there is a child involved, because it kind of holds you in the relationship. A lot of women take a lot of crap from their men just to hold the family together. Be strong, and don't accept this behaviour. Remember, if he does it once...he'll do it again. Love and respect yourself enough to walk away, and find someone who's really worthy of you and your daughter. Good luck.
2006-11-23 12:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say so. If he cheated on you already 2 times that you know about who is to say he wont do it again? It takes huge balls (excuse the term but its what came out) to cheat on you with your cousin. Yes you two may have a child together but is it worth all the frustration you have towards him? You deserve better then to be cheated on. I would call it a life lesson and move on. You can still stay friends. You should anyways if you ever want to get child support from him.
2006-11-23 12:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by doughboy09bravo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its time to call it a day, if you are only staying together for your daughter then its at least another 16-18 years that you will have to be with him. Make the break now
2006-11-23 12:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter is better off with one loving parent than two who fight all the time. Your cousin sounds like a total ***** so that's one less Xmas card to send. If you dont miss him I think you have answered your own question.
2006-11-23 12:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by Alexis O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ditch that looser. I mean anyone who cheats on you with a family member deserves a kick in the balls and thrown out with the rest of the trash. And trust me your child will get along a lot better without a low life like that in their life. Am I right people.
2006-11-23 14:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by RIP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it might be, I'm sorry.
Your daughter is much better off with 2 happy parents, whether you are together or not. And if you think it's going to end eventually, then you're much better off doing it now, while she is too young to understand everything that's going on.
2006-11-23 12:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That must of been very hard for you
the fact that your not missing him anymore is a great step!
well done you! many girls find it to hard to get over someone!
where did u go for your break? ia m looking for somewhere to sort my head out?
and i can understand you staying together for your daugther. but make sure your happy as well
if you want to chat more feel free to email me x
2006-11-23 12:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by XxXxPinkPrincessxXxX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it of you are not missing him, I understand why you stayed together for your daughters sake, but at the end of the day she would prefer 2 happy parents apart then 2 unhappy parents together im sure.
2006-11-23 12:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by I~Love~Baileys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! Just forget the bastard! So, gorgeous, what are you doing tonight? Want a nice meal, followed by some italian foreplay and then get down under the sheets and play doctors and nurses?
2006-11-23 12:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well jenn, with your daughter in your arms it should be more important to think about her rather than about a person who cheated you. Also it is important to see if your daughter enjoys his company. With time you might find him not missing but your daughter might find it.
2006-11-23 12:08:35 · answer #11 · answered by Sonu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋