my brother is concerning me as he keeps talking about a sex change. he is always watching britains next top model and says they are all fab looking and he would love to look like them. my father says he will shoot him if he does this and i dont want to have to tell my friends that i have a he she brother.
2006-11-23 04:02:01 · 22 answers · asked by nick23647@btinternet.com 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just think of all the thing you can share, gay men have such great taste. also there are lot worst things than transexual brother, like a biggeted sister
2006-11-23 04:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just saying it to wind you all up. If he isn't, perhaps he is looking for a way to say what he really feels. Why don't you have a quiet word with him? If he is feeling like this then he might appreciate a sympathetic ear. You will probably be shocked/surprised at first but you have grown up together and should support one another in whatever you decide. I am sure you would expect him to support you if you had such an important situation in your life.
2006-11-23 04:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute! Are you saying you'd rather your brother be depressed his whole life living a lie? You can't love him much then! If he decides to change gender,you need to realize that he is taking a brave huge step and the love and support of his friends and family will be more important to him than anything else in the world.
Who gives a damn what your friends think? You love your brother? Then be there for him and love him for who he is-and who he wants to be.
2006-11-23 04:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...and this concerns you more than your father threatening to murder your brother?
I find that a bit strange, but it takes all sorts.
I'm sure your brother's prime concern at the moment is how his possible future sex change will affect your friends' opinions of him and you. Very sensitive and perceptive of you to bring it up. Well done.
2006-11-23 04:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by lickintonight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, your brother cant help who he is, people would probably say he needs counseling, but would that really help? You cant help who your attracted too either. I would probably just try and offer my support to him, and tell him to try and not mention this around your dad, cause, I m sure this can be hurtful to him, I have children, and I'm not sure how I would even feel if one of them had said this to me, I would try and maybe have him look into all options, I don't think anyways they just offer a sex change to anyone who wants one.
2006-11-23 04:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by ang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are the strange one for saying he is strange,so what if that is what he wants to do,alls you are bothered about is what it will do to your reputation having a brother who has had a sex change.
Get out more
2006-11-23 04:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by WhaHoooo 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of his sexuality he is your brother and in todays society a sex change is not a taboo subject he is in conflict you need to be supportive and not negative as he is on a difficult journey and needs support not critism
2006-11-23 04:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by sammie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your brother needs some help and support.
2006-11-23 04:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thing is a huge thing for your brother to even consider, his dad said he'd shoot him and your worried about what your friends think - i think you should just think about what your brother wants, it might just be an idea and nothing more. what ever happens he's still your sibling. if you love him then you should respect and support his decision
2006-11-23 04:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by keeley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its unfortunate, but these this do happen. Your brother cant help how he feels. If this is truly what he wants then I suggest you do your best to support him - especially as it sounds like your father will disown him....
2006-11-23 04:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by Pippa 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋