I love exploring different things in the bedroom, learning new ways to pleasure myself and partners. I also love phone and cyber sex, and sharing intimate photos with boys and girls and make no secret of this- I LOVE sex! But there are people who have a low opinion of me- why? I'm careful and don't hurt people- I just live life to the full and enjoy myself. What's the problem with some people??
2006-11-23 03:58:26 · 33 answers · asked by Rebecca M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure I'd be respected far more if I was a guy!
2006-11-23 04:05:01 · update #1
Some people are prudes.
2006-11-23 04:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by neilinhp 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people may believe that this type of voyeurism may come back to harm you later in life. Also you pics could be posted anywhere through the web as some people that you send them too may post them and then anyone who looks up a porn site may be viewing you. You do not speak of your age but if you are still in school then when you do become an adult these may come up and possibly ruin any career that you want to get into. It does sound from your posting that you are a youth as you mention sharing these photos with boys and girls. Also you may find it difficult to find a boy that wants to have a meaningful relationship with you as whether you like it or not the fact of life is that you are getting a reputation as a good time gal and not one that someone would want so much as a steady girlfriend. Think long and hard about your choices and how they may affect you later in life.
2006-11-23 04:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their is absolutely wrong with living life to the fullest. Think about it this way, you can die at any given moment. You can have a heart attack, develop cancer that can't be treated, get shot on the way to work, die in a car accident which almost happened to me and my grandma, die in your sleep, and you can even die before you get a chance to read this answer. Why not enjoy life while we have it, we never know when are tI'me on earth is up. Do you want to live a clean and very boring lifestyle, then when your old have many regrets in life. As long as your not hurting people like you said, then you are doing nothing wrong as far as im concerned. I do sI'milar things to what you do, and the hell with what other people think. Here are some examples. I have sex, smoke, drink to im totally gone, hit up when pots offered to me, and just plain enjoy myself. If this helps I don't have a low opinion of you, you shouldn't care what other people think of you. Just keep on doing what your doing.
2006-11-24 18:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people are intimidated by the fact you are open about enjoying sex so much...I get the same, people instantly think you are a 's*ut' or something like that...
It seems that if men are open about their sex lives it's no big deal, but as soon as a woman talks openly about her sexuality it's suddenly wrong!!
F**k what everyone else thinks! You're obviously having a hell of alot more fun that most people so go for it!!!
x
2006-11-23 04:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by Angie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people (including myself) think of sex as a special thing to share between two people in love and no one else. You on the other hand, use sex loosely to pleasure yourself.
That's probably why people look down on you.
2006-11-23 04:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by StarlightRedemption 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you are the problem because you are living your life to the full and those who criticise you are not. Take no notice enjoy if it does no harm to anybody then it is good for everybody. Just stay legal and be protected.
Be happy it is nice to know that free spirits still exist
2006-11-23 04:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only because you flunt it. But long as you dont spread the love to any guy you meet (being a hussy) then thats fine in my books.
Dont just start a conversation with anyone about sex only your close friends and even then they might not want to here it because you can make them feel unconfortable not everyone wants that type of discussion.
2006-11-23 04:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by Beautiful - 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree - if a guy does it he's a stud muffin, if a girl does it she's easy.
I say carry on enjoying your life, you only get one and you should do what makes you happy and contented - as long as you're careful ignore anyone who tries to tell you to live your life in a way you dont want to.
:-)
2006-11-23 04:04:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is still a taboo subject, people don't want to know what others do in the bedroom (or atleast not in graphic detail) maybe you should not go around saying what you like to do to yourself and othersd, anyone who wants to know (i.e. friends and partners) will prob ask you about it.
There is nothing wrong with what you do but dont go on about itin front of other people who dont want to know.
2006-11-23 04:21:33 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are jealous
and some people might think that your having a serous relationship with them when your not your just having fun
and some people might call you a **** or something because when you have more than a couple of partners sometime that's what they think
but its up to u what u do
so do what you say live your life to the full!
2006-11-23 04:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're not hurting anyone or showing your stuff to minors, fair play to you.
People are stil prudish, and what they don't approve of or understand they fear, which is why some are negative toward you.
Carry on as you are, don't let others dictate your private life through their own standards. More power to you and for being prepared to be individual.
2006-11-23 04:03:14 · answer #11 · answered by Slackbladder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋