i hav a best friend n its guy,R..he lives not far from my home,so my parents know him n his family n vice versa...he's d one i cud pour my heart n he listen 2 me whenever i've problems.although we've been quite close for just bout a year,n we rarely see each other since i go 2 college now(which is quite far from my hometown),but we still contact each other..
n there's another guy at d college,F who claim that he likes me,but somehow i get confused with his attitude sometimes...he's so kind,patient n sweet towards me..we sms almost everyday...but lately he stopped doing that,as if he's avoiding me...i really dont understand him..
i told R bout F..n yesterday we hang out together(me n R)...n just now,he ask me to be his girl...wut shud i do??help me
2006-11-23 03:51:19 · 10 answers · asked by j's d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say you can talk to this guy about anything, thats great andvery good in a relationship and your family now and like him.
What you dont say is whether you have any other feelings for him. If you like him as a friend only then you have your answer. If, however, you have more feelings for him then some of the best relationships are built from a friendship. I have been with my partner for 7 years in January, we started as friends.
You also have to consider that if it goes wrong it may take time to build the friendship up again or it may be irrreparable.
This other guy {F} sounds like he doesnt know what he wants, if he is the one you like however then again you have your anwer.
Its a risk either way, but that is life {sorry if that comes across as patronising}. Go with how you feel at the time when making decisions, then you cant have regrets as that was how you felt at the time.
Good luck with your choice.
2006-11-23 04:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by mjastbury 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be his girl, you have known him quite a while and he has always been there for you. Relationships that start at college rarely last, go for guy R, because you will only end up saying 'what if' if you don't! Grab the chance with both hands and enjoy it!
2006-11-23 11:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing with the sms... it's crap! really now I've been in your shoes and I spent nights writing messages with this guy and he turned out to be a jerk. yeah, maybe their are not all the same, but... think about it and decide what's best for you. good luck!
2006-11-23 11:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. Good Luck.
2006-11-23 11:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask yourself, how do you feel about "r" and how do you feel about "f" If you like both of them equally, maybe you should look at it this way, "F" had his chance, and didn't take it, and if you really like "r" too, then go for it, unless your afraid that if "f" does confess his feelings for you, that he wants to date you, and your afraid that you might end up dumping"r" then I would probably have a talk with "f" and ask him how he feels, or just tell him how you feel. But, if your not afraid at all, then by all means go for "r"
2006-11-23 11:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by ang 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well this is easy, just tell the guy that u like most, hopefully R since youve known him longer. that you will go out with him. obviasly F is just messing with your head.
2006-11-23 11:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by teenagegypsy123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you should do is sign up for remedial English classes, and learn how to use punctuation.
After that, which one do you feel most for?
Only you know that, so only you can decide what to do.
2006-11-23 11:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
You follow your heart ..... if R is more at tentative and into you than F ...... why are you even asking ???
2006-11-23 11:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by girlielikesfun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your a guy your gay if your a chick it sounds like your life is a mess and u should use spell check
why do I get thumbs down : )
2006-11-23 11:54:55 · answer #9 · answered by sonoftazont 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
go where your heart leads you
2006-11-23 11:54:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋