i was going to use my girls cell phone and i looked up her call log and saw that she dialed a 1-800 number so i called it and it was a chatline for dating people in your city. i confronted and she told me she was just bored. ha yeah right. i don't trust her anymore. what should be my next step , we live together.
help me people
2006-11-23 03:50:28 · 8 answers · asked by tdoghenton 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, you need to confront her and tell her what happened to your trust so she knows she is playing in the big league now. Trust takes time to "rebuild," and without it you have nothing. Communication is the key. Listen to your heart for the next step, either forgive or know that it will not work, but it can't be both.
2006-11-23 03:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you apparently didnt trust her to begin with or you wouldnt have called a number she had called. So with doubt in your heart Id say the best thing is to either talk to her and get whats on your mind OUT, OR leave her. a relationship cant work if theres not trust, and you have no trust. thats obvoius, so something is apparently wrong. Be better in my oppinion for the both of you to work this out and maybe end it.
2006-11-23 11:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by stoneydork21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all she is doing is talking to other men - then you have no problem. If she is actually dating them you have a big problem.
Just tell her that you are sorry but under the circumstance's you can't trust her anymore, that maybe it would be better if she moved out for awhile, until she decides what she wants to do with her life. Weather she wants you or other men too, she can't have both....
Because if she is doing this now after marriage it could get worst....
Stop it now...
2006-11-23 12:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by Angell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those things are a joke. I do it for a laugh to. Try it yourself. No one would really want a date from it.
Hey, it's a guy thing to look in her phone log. That's not bad. It's a girl thing to look in his top drawer.That's OK too. If she had some thing to hide she would delete the number.
2006-11-23 11:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by Brother Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why she is calling the number in the first place. Is there something amiss in your relationship? sounds like you were just looking for a reason not to trust her in the first place.
2006-11-23 12:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it it was just a chatline,now if u check it and theres a dudes # on it kick his *** then dump her.
2006-11-23 11:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by Fly_Boy97 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her dude. Myb/f caught me with another guy(his friend) and forgave me cuz I was bored. Give her a second chance.
2006-11-23 11:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what do yu think? if she is cheating? what can she bring home to you? std's? or worse?get rid of her ! cheat once will cheat again!human nature?
2006-11-23 11:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋