your man gives you a place to stay,but is still involved in other people before my time. i don't pay any bills, i just live here, please him, work parttime and do what i have to. He also still be on the chat line on the web and maybe the phone too. females that he used to be involved with still calls him every week and also calls the cell and house phone.
2006-11-23 03:50:03 · 11 answers · asked by cuddle me softly as soft as can get 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just chill, live free, save money, and use a CONDOM every time you please him. BE CAREFUL
2006-11-23 03:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by Kia25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So the real question is. Is he your MAN? Giving someone a place to stay. is just that. If you feel the need to pay him and your choice is? or his choice is? all you have to do is please him. then that is an agreement.
Look at your situation with your eyes open and not with eyes that are half shut. There is no right or wrong in your situation, just know what it is, so you don't get hurt or expect things.
2006-11-23 03:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a pretty crappy place to be actually. Don't you feel kind of used and like you have no independence? Sure its nice to have a place to stay but he's with other people. He doesn't seem to care about u that much to me. I would get out of there.
2006-11-23 03:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like this guy is a player...u should leave him!! if he doesn't think ur good enough & has other realtionships...LEAVE HIM!! and if u can't afford a place of ur own, stay w/ a friend!! good luck! and remember, a guy who doesn't have the time of day 4 u, isn't the right guy!
2006-11-23 03:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by bbball luvr_007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are being robbed off your sense of self with every day. Do something quick
2006-11-23 03:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find your own place as early as possible.That's the solution.
2006-11-23 03:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by shri 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to get your own place... dont please him, cause he is just having his cake and eating it too....
You say that he is talking to girls that were there before your time...
I do not think it is your time now if thats the way he is acting.
2006-11-23 03:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by MomOf2Girls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you are freeloading you have to accept it until you can persuade him to be with you and only you
2006-11-23 03:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find your own place to stay.
2006-11-23 03:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, where can I get one too?
2006-11-23 03:52:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋