Me and My boyfriend havent seen eachother in 3 weeks and he said he missed me but i didnt feel he was terlling the truth so the next day i wrote him this:
I love the way your losin more and more interest in me everyday .if u love me so much whydo i feel so damn lonely, u never make time to see me, you hardly ever call i always have to call you. i need a real relationship with u not jus a phone convo every now and then. i guess you cant understand that but its all good when your ready to play the role of my boi friend then you call me ok....
I didnt mean for it to sound like a break up letter so when he emailed me back all mad i tryed to explain... the next day he called me screamin at
me asking me what the messages was aboout he wouldnt even listen to me i was tryin to explain...He said he was gonna call me back so i emailed him again saying i was sorry and he wrote me back all mad he said i didnt love him and all this other crap....What should i do to get my relationship fixed
2006-11-23 03:41:23 · 13 answers · asked by Tjmaxx is my world 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i would just tell him that i do care for him but it seems like it is being a one sided relationship. i was going through that with my boyfriend but we have been together for almost 7 yrs now. but give it time and see what goes on. why haven't you seen each other in 3 weeks?
2006-11-23 03:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to his house or whatever and speak to him; face to face. Tell him that you will tell your story then he can say whatever he likes as long as you have 1 minute. Tell him how you didnt mean him to understand him as he did. Say you still really like him and want to be with him, but being with someone does acctually mean more than an occasional phone convo or email. Be honest and if you really want it fixed just take full blame for the situation, get te two of you back together then later on tell him that you want to spend more time with him, but not in the same way! Good luck!
2006-11-23 03:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by Elle :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you he will talk to you he is just mad now and need some time he will be back if he loves you like he say he do and then you can sit down and you can talk you can tell him how you feel and what you need and he the same if the love is there you will find a way to meet eachother needs if not you will just have to let each other go and find some one that for you
2006-11-23 03:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by tacha_cb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seemingly your boy friend was waiting for a chance to break this relationship. So dont badly hang on him to fix this relationship.
Be patient, May be he can change his mind sometime later and come to you. If not be happy as you got rid of a person who can't listen and forgive. Everyone make mistake. who is perfect? forgiveness and acceptance are the greatest thing every one should learn and practice.
2006-11-23 03:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by DIm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly if he did love you he would react apologetic to your message.. Hes out of order being mad with you you were saying how you feel and he isnt treating you right! The way he was when you were together aswell by how you put it in your message isnt great.. So i would go ahead and look for someone better and someone who could give you what you really want. Its really up to you whether your willing to let go though. Good luck however it goes x
2006-11-23 03:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by hembo_baybee_x 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive been through the same thing. i basically just let things go, i mean if he really loves you he will get over it. all you can do is tell him how much he means to you and if he can't accept your point of view of the relationship than i would just say move on and go to somebody that could really understand you.
good luck
2006-11-23 03:52:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i have a saying i can be lonely but not misrable if hes never aroud or just around when its convinent for him or hes around when he wants sex it ain't working you stated how you felt people don't get in relationships to be appart or alone or whats the point he needs to grow up and commit and give you the emotionl support and companionship you need or dump him
2006-11-23 03:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by davidwalshbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he was living up to his part, you wouldn't have to feel that w y. Face it sweetheart, if he ain't listenin, he ain't worth it. he doesn't need to be yellin @ u. thats his buzz n he needs to correct that. there's nothin u can do but move on. if u really love him then try to talk it out...
2006-11-23 03:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by daddysgurlnyc718 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time to cool down and then approach him again with your feelings and thoughts.
2006-11-23 03:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by party_pam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stupid forget him and do not chat or E-Mail him.If he really loves you then only he will come back to you to say SORRY dear.
2006-11-23 03:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by shri 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋