i have been with my man 4, 4 months and he has recently told my best friend that he doesnt know if he wants to be with me because im too clingy but actually i feel like he was the one that was being too clingy at the begging of the relationship he would phone me 3 times a day or more but now im lucky if i hear from him 3 times a week. i dont ask him where he is going i dont ring him unless he rings me and i dont get jealous when i know hes out with other girls. i still really want to be with him i just dont know wether to mention nething about him not wanting to be with me please help
2006-11-23 03:22:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it sounds like it's time to move on. Some guys are all about the chase but once they get the girl then they are done with them. Just get prepared and move on. You will find someone that will show you the love and respect you deserve.
2006-11-23 03:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to him about it. Would you rather live in fear not knowing? Communication is a pretty important factor in relationships. Just talk to him, find out how he's feeling. And if he says your too clingy, ask him why he thinks that. If your only hearing from him 3 times a week, unless there is obstacles in the way such as work, or whatever, then something isn't right. I'm 34, and my guy is 45, and right now hes away, and while we dont get to talk much on the phone, he does make it a point to write to me at least 3 to 4 times a week. I would find out now, before its too late.
2006-11-23 11:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by ang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it certainly sounds like he may be a little immature as he did not speak with you directly and instead spoke with your friend. I would suggest that you approach him and ask him frankly what is happening in your relationship and if you have any type of future and if he finds you too clingy then to explain his reasons to you. Good luck.
2006-11-23 11:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget him dear.This guy is not for you and he doesn't love you either.What you need at present is a guy who cares for you and love you without telling you time and again.Your love is physical and not eternal which is why you still inclining with him.
2006-11-23 11:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by shri 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋