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my girlfriend started goign to this teen club every couple of weeks and i cant go with her cause my parents wont let me , and when she is over there she says she dances and she said she "grinded" a couple of times..............i told her i dont like it but she immedaitly said that i dont trust her and that she didnt do anything wrong and she wont ever let another guy touch her in a "bad" way ......so should i be angry ? should i try and tell her not to go there ? wouldnt that be unfair and i dont think she'd do it ...she loves it .....what do i do ?

2006-11-23 03:14:43 · 10 answers · asked by help!! 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

Yeah I remember her, she let me hit it.

2006-11-23 03:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If I were you, I'd be PISSED as F***!! Now, listen to me coming from a female's perspective here.
I've been to the club a few times; all times when I didn't have a boyfriend. Let me tell you that, as a girl, if you are in a crowded club, guys will be dancing on you no matter what. The fact that your girlfriend said she was grinding...well to me is completley unacceptable. Grinding = sex with clothes on. Not so much but you catch my drift...it's extremley provacative dancing.
As for her not letting a guy touch her innappropriately....she can't count on it. I had who was at the club and while she was dancing with a guy, he stuck his hand up her skirt. Gross.

I don't know. This decision is totally based on trust. Your call man.

2006-11-23 03:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If your gf needs to go and grind with other guys, this is a problem. Tell her that you really don't like it if she does that. It's not because you don't trust her but the guys she does this with might get the wrong signal.

If she loves you, she will stop "grinding". Tell her she can still go but to promise not to be soo touchy with other guys.

Hope it works out for you!

2006-11-23 03:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by Minouners 3 · 0 0

Do you know what grinding is? Clearly she's all over a person if she's doing this. I don't balme you for getting up set. Why can't you guys do something you both like to do. For example see a movie or hang out somewhere.

2006-11-23 03:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Girls in clubs are drunk .We'll dance with anyone who dances with us, it's nothing serious, it's just fun.Even if we grind with a guy we're dancing with, most of the time it's not because we like them , just because we want to. If she loves it, whatever you say won't stop her from going, it's her choice, don't bug her about it, because then she might get angry and actually think of doing something with another guy.Don't provoke her, just trust her.

2006-11-23 03:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by GreenEyedFox 2 · 0 0

Hate to tell you this but you can't make rules to "keep" your girl. It's six miles of bad road and won't work in the long run. If "grinding" is a serious infraction to you, I'd let her know that you can't deal with that. That is, BTW, sex in my mind and qualifies as cheating. Rubbing a guy's crotch with clothes on is "bad" in my view and I'd do what you need to do.

2006-11-23 03:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0 0

ther is no good and bad way of touching there is just touching i would be mad if my boy friend was slapping that in the club when i could not even drive there i think that a way to teach her a lesson is if u slap a girls *** while she is there then when she says that that was uncalled for tell her that grinding is uncalled for you slutty *****!

2006-11-23 03:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by mar! 2 · 0 0

Leave her trust me on this one. I use to have a girl who club pretty much every weekend. NOT a good girlfriend to have at all!

2006-11-23 03:19:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Stop being jealous and insecure. SO what if she danced wit other people? She's still YOUR girlfriend.

2006-11-23 03:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i think you should really trust her

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2006-11-23 03:16:33 · answer #10 · answered by john doe 1 · 0 0

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