we have known each other for about one and a half year, im 20, she is 22.she is just so so naughty,she allways playing about and behaveing like a spoilt child when we go out, she embarreses me sometimes as ppl look at us two in confusion when she starts being naughty in public.how or what can i do for her to stop being like this, i have told her many times to act like a grown up but she becomes just more naughtier, someone pls help?
2006-11-23 03:11:54 · 29 answers · asked by the_reporter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he he, im naughty too sometimes, i can't help it.. but to answer your question you need to teach her how to act grown up, only u can do that since your close to her, start of slowly dont push her, you will notice a diff in a few months time, i hope it helps...if things don't improve just spank her bum bright red with a hot water bottle, she will surely learn then. good luck xxx
2006-11-23 03:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by alpha.female 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how naughty she was being. My roommate and I live in a domestic discipline relationship. If she's just being bratty and I spank her, it's usually just playful banter between us, and it means nothing much. Unless I spank her like this in a public venue (she's been spanked in the front seat of my car on a few occasions), then there's little reason for embarassment, since she bratted so she'd be spanked, anyway. Now, if she truly was behaving poorly, or broke one of her rules, then the embarassment of the spanking is part of the discipline, as well as knowing the disappointment that I feel for her behavior. These two things work in tandem to put her in the right headspace to feel sorry for her actions.
2016-05-22 22:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanna borrow my whip???!!!! ;)
Something isn't quite right here hun........i have just read your question about who to choose...(frm 4 days ago)the woman who you had in the toilets, or ur regular g/f. Now the point i am making here is this...........in that question, you stated that you had been with your regular g/f for 3 years.........but in this question, you are saying that you have been together for a year & a half. Is there really a problem, or do you just want pples opinions on someone having a sense of humour whilst out shopping?.
Well, i'll let ya into a lil secret....i am 42 yrs old, my partner is 35 yrs old, and neither of us have forgotten how to have fun and misbehave when out shopping. We don't upset anyone, hurt anyone......if anything, we make people laugh. We sing, or dance, stamp on eachothers feet whilst in ques,he calls me "mum" in the shops, & we play fight over shopping trolleys!. It's not childish, its fun. We can't have the stiff upper lip all the time. Accept your g/f for who she is, and try having a go urself sometime. As long as it isn't upsetting people, i really cannot see your problem!. I know, we tell our children to behave at shops.........but they do charge about and bump into people, and they cant play fight without it turning nasty...............but us adults can..........heehee.
Blessings
Solista
2006-11-23 03:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Solista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not your daughter shes your girlfriend, she obviously wants attention. Whats your idea of naughty? Maybe she's just tryin to piss you off cos you treat her like a child? If it's not that then stop goin out with her in public until she gets the point that your serious about it. only other thing i would say is ask her why she's doin it and if that dont help maybe you need to look at whether she's the one for you
2006-11-23 03:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by nik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse to take her out and tell her again that you are embarresed to be seen in public with her. Could it be that perhaps she is at one end of the spectrum and u are at the other, meaning that you two aren't suited.
Either you and her compromise or move on and find someone else.
2006-11-23 03:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there is a site on the web which specialises in cattle prods and other instruments of chastisement. However, she sounds as if she is a spirited young lady and perhaps you will grow to delight in her eccentricities or you might develop a duodenal ulcer; either way best wishes .
2006-11-23 03:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by veitchy58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's so naughty because you shag other girls in the toilets when you're on nights out together.....can't believe you are questioning her behaviour after the question you put up just a few days ago talking of your affair!
2006-11-23 03:23:07 · answer #7 · answered by Haribo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull her across your laps for a spanking. Even in the public, hopefully she will be embarassed and learn to behave like a good girl quickly.
2006-11-23 03:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean by naughty? if shes acting like a child then leave her find a nice woman whos fun to be with and is only naughty in the bedroom lol. good luck!
2006-11-23 03:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by dragontears 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's playing with you... she needs a good spanking! Ask her about 'role playing' you could be the headmaster and she could be the naughty schoolgirl. My boyfriend and I play this all the time when we go out!
2006-11-23 03:37:58 · answer #10 · answered by Emma L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋