Im still a virgin. I am not one of those types looking for some booty but whenever the time comes I want to be ready. Anybody know any good positions for a first timer or just even for the best experience? Or are you never ready at first? Last what are the best brand of rubbers? Thank you
2006-11-23 03:05:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are never really ready for the first time. But, I think the best position is being on top. I like to be in control. Another good position esp. for a first timer is him on top. It is nice because you can have a closeness to him you can't get in other ways. If you want to know more interesting position look into Kuma Sutra. I think the best condoms is Magnum XL, but Trojan works pretty well, too.
2006-11-23 03:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anna A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it is her first time you may want to go with the standard missionary position. You won't be able to do "doggie", or a reverse your first time...you gotta get your stroke up as well as be comfortable enough with her to do "high impact" strokes.
The missionary is just you between her legs like usual. Its more intimate as you will be able to kiss her and touch her. It is also a good position for her because she can push you back if you are going in too hard.
Be sure to do lots of foreplay and loosening up before...sort of a tantric type of deal...don't go straight in because you will both be scared and it will cause alot of added pain for her.
Really, its not about the guy as much as the woman. She has to be comfortable. Stay calm and gradually work yourselves into it.
I would suggest "fingerging" for a while because from what I hear it is never enjoyable the first time. "Its like putting a banana in you nose".
My first time took about eight hours. I took my time and respected my girlfriend, gradually getting to a point where we could do as we pleased. Of course I was young and didn't know a damn thing...but its all good.
Anyway, missionary...oh and just make sure you use something with a spermicidal lubricant. Don't use those blasted colored cheapies...lifestyles has always worked for me...as well as trojan. Don't use lambskin ...it's nasty. SPERMICIDAL LUBRICANT...KILL THE SPERMIES.
good luckp-
2006-11-23 03:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by alfredtwyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Just relax and be yourself. The missionary position is a good one to start off with. The lady you plan to lose your virginity to will guide you, she will let you know what she likes by leading you. Try not worry whether you are doing ok, just be calm and most importantly be yourself. Everything will run smoothly! Good luck and I hope it all works out great for you!
2006-11-23 03:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do, try the missionary position for the first time, or girl on top works too...it is awkward at first,,,the best rubbers, well I dont need to use em anymore, but trojans are the most reputable...good luck and have fun...By the way you might want to toss one off before hand, so you dont finish too quickly....
2006-11-23 03:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by rufnready 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a kind woman for a first timer, shell teach you. but just remember you will fall in love with her and she will not be interested, be ready for the heart break.
2006-11-23 03:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋