She has been my bf's friend for a 1yr or so. She plays in a band & he asked her out, she said no but still brought him to meet her parents, carried on with the txts & invites to her house. I got with him 8 months ago, she has stopped talking to him and not the same when they do chat. She txt him to come online to speak with her, everytime he mentioned me she cut the conversation off. She then went onto get sympathy by saying she's really ill with her bad periods.I know this as he sent me the conversation. He hasn't spoken to her until recently when she has asked him "if he's allowed to go see her in the band". Whether its just me but i find if you say this to a man, they hate to be portrayed as "under the thumb" by saying are you allowed, seems to imply that & hopefully get a reaction. Surely if she was that good a friend she would want to meet his new partner & not ignore him. I trust my partner with any of my friends or any girls i just have a feeling about this girl. Am i wrong
2006-11-23 01:10:47 · 8 answers · asked by bettiboop 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She obviously wants to be more than friends with your guy. She resents you for your relationship. I think its time your boyfriend "lost" this particular friend. Good luck.
2006-11-23 01:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by Firespider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know the saying "you want what you can't have". It's that exactly. She is just mad that he has moved on and found someone better.
If he was still really into her he would have dumped you already to be with her.
And if he sends you the conversations he has with her then you have nothing to worry about hun. It seems like he is really into you and wants to show you that you have nothing to worry about... because if he wanted to he could be with her... but he doesn't want to be with her... he wants you.
I think that both of you should go watch the band play. It is saying "Hey, he's mine, back off". And it is kinna nice to rub it in her face that she could have had it... but chose not to.
2006-11-23 09:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by Alex The Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings are fine, it just sounds like shes his friend but doesn't like you..maybe because he doesn't speak to her (at all or much) anymore, it seems like she wants attention from him but not enough to be with him. She wants you out of the picture from what you've said, she would probably like it if you both broke up, but I don't know if that's what she is trying to do..she is just being jealous.
2006-11-23 09:21:20 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u shud ask him can u go with him..
play a little game with her..
say to him that ud lik to go an see her play in the band.. that shes his friend, and ud like to get to kno her.. (ever heard of keep ur friends close an enimies closer??)
then even if she wanted to... she couldn sway him from u.. as he wud see u as being nice, by wanting to join him and his friends.. not stopping him from seeing anyone..
its the only thing to do..
she is most certainly playing games with you.... think its time to play back :-)
2006-11-23 09:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by laura g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i think ur rite. before she had him all to her self and now that ur around my guess is that she's gettin jealous and as u said wants to brake u 2 up. well hope everythin ends up rite. happy thanksgiving.
2006-11-23 09:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mony 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she wants him so bad she can taste him. He needs to make a decision, choose her friendship/love or you.
2006-11-23 09:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by redheadedmess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no your 100% right dont be here freind anymore.
2006-11-23 09:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by farahthequeen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are likely right... this ***** has issues.
2006-11-23 09:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by israeli_stuck_in_usa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋