I have recently cut of contact with a FWB relationship with a younger man, i'm 11 years older than him. This lasted for a year and whilst I really care for him I am in love with a man who has a girlfriend and is living with her for the past 3 years.
When I told the younger man of this he got really upset that I would give myself away so easily as he put it and he was also upset that I only chose to tell him and not the unavailable man.
The younger man then informed the unavailable man that I had been sleeping around, he said he did it because the unavailable man didn't really care for me and he has a point he doesn't. I guess he saw it as some kind of friendship sacrifice on his part. I have since cut of contact with the young man,do you think he did it cos he cared for me?
2006-11-23 00:40:07 · 9 answers · asked by yyyut g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also used to work with the younger man
2006-11-23 00:42:07 · update #1
Neither.
He didn't do it because he "cared for" you. He did it because of human nature.
It is human nature to hurt those, that have hurt you. He wanted you to lose your object of desire, because you took his away.
These 2 guys obviously are not "the one". Drop them, and start finding him.
2006-11-23 00:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thought to ponder...
Apples and Wine
Women are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. Most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they sometimes take the apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. The apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who is brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.
Now Men.... Men are like a fine wine. They begin as grapes, and it's up to women to stomp the **** out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.
2006-11-23 08:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by miss_michigan2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He most likely did it because he is jealous. It was a selfish act. He just wanted to keep you for himself. There is a difference between liking good sex or whatever and love. If he really loved you he would not do anything to hurt you. Sorry. That is what it looks like from this angle.
2006-11-23 08:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
young man upset because you dumped him. sounds like you have two losers in your life. go hunting or shopping for a new man.
2006-11-23 08:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by robert c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he just care about the sex you was giving him and he don't want the other man to have it. if someone was giving me something for nothing i would want to continue getting it to. he is just a horny young guy
2006-11-23 08:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, he did not care for u, he was jealous of tht other man and wished to put u down in his eyes
2006-11-23 08:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a total bitc@t i hope this other man hurts you like you hurt this poor man, and chances are he will BIG TIME
2006-11-23 08:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by azmondo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no.. he put your name in vain!
2006-11-23 08:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by -'UpEnDi'- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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u can see what m i writing
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so if u can see this it dont mean u can read this
ur man is like this u can see but u cant read him so give him love so love man need love where they feel love they go there !!!!
2006-11-23 08:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by abdulhameed2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋