daughter being bullied?

Question

my daughter is being bullied , ive told the class teacher and made a complaint to the head of school, my daughter has been told to just ignore the girl, but how can you ignore a punch or a kick, ive also made a statement to police now as i feel the school are ignoring me, the head was not happy & asked me did i exspect the child to be arrested, i didn't exspect that for one min, just want
people to beleave that my daughter cant take any more, she has kept this to herself for more than 1 year as the bully told her she will do worse if she tells anyone, well its out in the open now & she hasn't stoped hitting my child , it's so hard for me to keep my hands to myself when i see the bully with her mother at hometime looking like butter wouldn't melt in that little foul mouth of hers,my doughter wants to move to another school but i say why should we move, the bully must have problems at home ? well children don't act this evill for no reason do they, dont know what to do now

Answer 1

i've had the same problem with my daughter. til i actually spoke to another parent about it and it wasn't until her child told other kids about it that something was done not by the staff but by the bully. it might not work but it might be worth a try.

all the teacher and head master said was that it was just kids trying to figure out where they belong. but she was a prepy.

Answer 2

You should march into that school and make the principal do something about it. It is the school's responsibility to make sure that your daughter is safe while receiving her education.
This bully should be receiving a punishment from either her teacher or principal. I can't believe that you called the police and they still haven't done something about it. That is crazy.
You have to MAKE the school do something. Don't sit idly by and let your daughter get hurt.
Have you even tried talking to the mother of the bully yourself? Make sure you do it in front of your daughter and the bully. That way neither can play at being a little angel. I would just speak to the mother in a mature matter-of-factly way. Tell her that her daughter is hurting your daughter and it has to stop.
Last choice is what another poster suggested. Enroll her in a self defense class. Not only will it build her self confidence but, she will be able to defend herself if the need arises. But, teach her to use this tool wisely.
I sincerely hope for you and your daughter that this bullying stops.
Good luck!

Answer 3

Look...I know this is hard, but you're going to have to get your daughter to stand up for herself, or this girl will keep on pestering her (and other people will jump on the bandwagon). I would enroll your daughter into karate, or something like that (it will boost her self esteem and show her that a punch can't hurt you all the time). This bully is not going to back down until your daughter shows her that she's not afraid. The bully loves the fact that your daughter is terrified, and that her mommy is scared too! Once the bully knows that your daughter is not going to take any crap anymore, then she'll back off.

Instead of asking the school to stop the other girl's behavior, let the school know that since they haven't been protecting your daughter, you're going to allow your daughter to protect herself. I know you probably don't want your daughter to get into a fight...I think that's what she needs to do. Bullies prey on people they feel are weak, and your daughter is definitely making herself an easy target b/c she's afraid. The bully probably does have problems at home, but who cares...tell your daughter beat her *** anyway. Bullies are usually the biggest babies once someone stand up to them.

Answer 4

It's probably pretty harmless, and quite possibly more a sign of adoration than bullying, but definitely keep and eye on it. Boys don't usually bully girls just for bullying's sake, but it can happen and should be cut off as quickly as possible.

Answer 5

Enroll her in a self defense class. My daughter was being bullied and she has since taken a year of Shaolin Kempo (Kung Fu in laymen terms). She was punched the other day and she got her attacker in a half nelson pinned against the school wall. Just enough force to keep her from getting hit any more, but not enough to leave any real damage or incriminating marks.

She now not only wont get bullied anymore, but I don't have to worry about kidnappers or her getting abused by her boyfriends or husband. She's more confident, more stable, more controlled and shows no signs of aggressive behavior due to the training. In fact, she's better behaved and more docile because of it.

Also, if you child is being hit or physically acossted in any way you can press charges against the offender. Find one or two witnesses, take pictures of any bruises and take them to the police.

Answer 6

1. Enrole in self defence
2. your worrys should be about your daughter yes this bully must have problems but you can't fix that. You need to take care of your daughter.
3. look in to homeschooling it's great for little kids then after a while bring her back to school

Answer 7

Get your little girl out of that school! They don't seem to be concerned for the safety of your child there and probably no one elses children either.Children who are bullies usually are abused at home or just not treated well in general. This bully will probably never leave your daughter alone because she gets away with it. Get your girl out of that school! Keep her safe.After you get your daugher out of that school then go to the board of education and make a complaint against the school.

Answer 8

i know u dont want to hear this answer but tell ur daughter to next time this happens, to drop whatever she has and tell the bully "lets go right now". Alot of times this will show the bully that she isnt afraid and it will probably solve itself. I know fighting isnt the answer but alot of times when people stand up to buillies in this way, the bully will back down and leave them alone.
My son had this problem in 1st grade and I told him next time this happens to do this. Now they are like best friends and nobody messes with him anymore.
Good luck.

Answer 9

look at my advice for your last question. let your daughter go to a guidance counsular and let her explain the situation. or call nova

Answer 10

YOU MARCH INTO THE SCHOOL LOOK THAT PRINCIPAL IN THE EYE AND SAY LOOK LAIDY MY CHILD IS SICK OF THIS YOU DEAL WITH IT NOW.