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HELP ME PLEASE! YOUR ADVICE IS Really Needed XXX?
A guy i went out with said i was wierd what does this mean besides the obvious?
this guy asked me out for a bit we went out i was going through a real hard time at work and probably acted a little strange he said i was wierd and left it at that. I sent him a text saying sorry for all the strange things that happened and he texted me back saying not to worry and that he was glad i could laugh at it with a mate and at the end put take care. Does this mean he still fancies me or he has forgiven me...should i text him back what should i put so he still likes and respects me...pleaase help i want him back he waas sooo the right guy just at the wrong time
2006-11-23 00:19:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a feeling the moment's gone there now. Perhaps come out of this a little wiser from the experience.
2006-11-23 00:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, darling, I don't think that he either fancies or has forgiven you. Surely if he knew that you were going through a hard time he would've helped you or at least asked you to tell him about it, but it doesn't sound that he did and it doesn't sound that he cares or respects you and to be honest I would forget about him as he definately ain't worth it. I would try and resolve whatever personal and professional issues you have first and then start the hunt again for a decent bloke. The last thing you want is to go through the same stuff again. You may think he was the right guy, but time will show and prove that he wasn't.
2006-11-23 00:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It probably means that he does care about you but to be honest sweetheart you should not chase him. I think you are worth more than him anyway and should wait and live a little. You will know when you have found the right person because instead of laughing at you and calling you weird, the right person would ask what is wrong and offer help because that is what true caring people do.
Look after yourself and good luckxx
2006-11-23 00:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by Neo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take care = bye bye. It certainly implies he's not expecting you to be in contact for quite a long time. Text him back to thank him for being there for you at a difficult time and then drop it.
2006-11-23 00:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by rosbif 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact him. We are simple creatures (sex and beer), just kidding. There is no right time or place to connect with someone, you have to make it happen. You can never go back and do things over, you have to look forward and be ready to make things work when you get your next chance. Be yourself and have fun, people like being around happy people, even if they are weird.
2006-11-23 00:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jack S. Buy more ammo! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not just arrange to meet up for a drink or a meal and take things what step at a time.
2006-11-23 00:23:15 · answer #6 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
VERY SIMPLE SOLUTION - Dear Rebecca.
Just text him another message saying, "OK ! So you have seen the WEIRD side of me, NOW give me a chance to show you the WOW side of me !" ---THEN SHOW HIM THAT SIDE OF YOU !
2006-11-23 01:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would like to me, that the " take care" is a good bye.
Some men just can't take a women that is more funny than them.
I would say it is his loss and not yours.
2006-11-23 00:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by DARES 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont need to be forgiven for anything and he may like you --- the weird comment was friendly perhaps
why text?? -- call him talk to him --- see what he says and maybe even ask him out --- i think weird can be a lot of fun
2006-11-23 00:27:25 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The take care was a goodbye. U blew it huni
2006-11-23 00:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by rachel d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋