can it be kidney infection? or std?

Question

my girlfriend has burning and feels like she has to pee but a lil bit comes out,she says shes been thru this before that its her kidneys and as long as she drinks water itll go away? what i remember that night her vagina was slimy, could it have been someone elses semen? how long after sex do you know youve got some kind of std? how can i kno for shure without fals acusation???

weve been together 6 moths ive been faithful so has she i think , another concern is she dosnt orgasm as much and or as fast as she use to

Answer 1

It sounds like a UTI or urinary tract infection - curable through antibiotics from the doctor.

Very possible after sex for women - not too much to worry about.

Addition: To know for sure, head to a doctor's office (which means you get an exam which isn't fun, but if you're having sex it's kind of like a rite of passage) and get checked out.

Most likely if she was "slimy" it was just her being turned on & in the mood.

One suggestion I would make to you in order to kind of ask but not suggest is asking her if she's ever been tested - say you're thinking about going and were wondering if she had ever been. I know it's not the most fun thing to talk about but it's necessary.

Answer 2

Hmmm, I think I did you a little bit wrong with my answer to another question, but according to the way you put the question I don't want to change it.
If you believe you both have been faithful, you should stay with that unless you got a better reason to doubt her.
I am not a doc, but a former girlfriend of mine had a similar problem, and she had it frequently. It was some kind of infection that she got, non sexual related and not too bad. But she got it a couple of times, and once she had it I had to get the same treatment, because I got it too (although without having any symptoms). Otherwise once she would have cured it, I could infect her again.

Convince her to see a doc, you shouldn't play with yor health, and if you still have doubts propose her to join.

Answer 3

Bladder infections, bladder stones, kidney stones, and even sex with YOU can give your girl this sensation. For instance, if you use a condom and she happens to be allergic to latex! Or if she used contraceptive foam and she is allergic to something in it. That would also explain the slimy feeling. (She might be allergic to things like this and might not even know it is why she gets the stinging and burning. I know because I am.)

Men usually know for a FACT within 3 days if they get an STD because it feels like they are p*ssing razor blades. The exceptions would be AIDS, and syphillis. Give your girl the benefit of the doubt, or go to the Dr. and get yourself tested. There should be a free family planning clinic in your town or in one nearby.

Remember, if she caught something, it could have been from YOU, unless you are a virgin. Don't make a stupid assumption, and USE PROTECTION!

Answer 4

Don`t go acusing her of anything. She probably has cystitis, which is a painfull urine infection. This can lead to kidney problems if not treated. She should drink plenty of water & cranberry juice to flush the infection out. What she needs is a caring boyfriend, not someone who accuses her of sleeping with someone else. Do you have reason to believe this, or are you just jealous?

Answer 5

I have had a lifetime of kidney,bladder,and urinary tract infections.It sounds to me as if she has one. She should call her doctor immediately as they can become quite serious and unbearably painful.She will most likely need an antibiotic. Also drink lots of 100% cranberry juice(NOT Cocktail)and water.
In my experience,these infections can affect things regarding intimately,and may also be painful then also.

Answer 6

That's because some other Brother is wearing it out. She'll give you something that Clorox and a wire brush won't get off.