I recently met this guy off of Yahoo Personals, He lives VERY close to me, seemed like a great guy, I mean real sweet and everything, but then when we met in person, I had this feeling like I didn't trust him, strange, GUT feeling, anyway I flat out set him up, I purposly left some money in my purse, (only $3.00) when I went to his house, then I purposly left my purse in the car, and left my keys out in the open. I will say that I ALWAYS lock my car, anyone that knows me, knows that I do this, so it WAS locked. I asked to use the bathroom, which would give him time to make his move, while I was upstairs, I heard the front door open, when I came down he was coming back in the house. I said to him, OH I gotta go I am running late..I purposly didn't hit the unlock button to see if my car was unlocked..GUESS WHAT? It WAS! and one of those three dollars was missing. This is a 34 year old man, NOT a kid, AND he went to college. I am definatly gonna leave him alone, just wondered if I......
2006-11-21 09:09:26 · 10 answers · asked by conniechung 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
should I confront him? or just let it go????
2006-11-21 09:11:05 · update #1
He KEEPS calling me...saying Hi baby, WHY won't you talk to me? I miss you...I want to say SO badly, I set you up, and you fell for it buddy, But I think I would be safer if I just let it go?????
2006-11-23 09:25:48 · update #2
Sorry..I said he keeps Calling me..I meant IM'ing me..he has called the house too, but I haven't answered....
2006-11-23 09:49:28 · update #3
For a dollar let it go, seriously I think all guys should have learned not do stupid stuff like that when we were ohh... 5 Besides if a 34 year old is doing stuff like that with girls he meets online you never know what he may do if you confront him about it.
2006-11-21 09:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand why you went through all this trouble and inconvenienced yourself, you should never ever ignore that gut feeling...it has a name..."woman's intuition" and this is the most powerfull tool you will have in life when dealing with any type of man. Girl...trust the GUT...always. I have been there and in occasions ignored that Gut feeling and ended up getting hurt or just misjudging someone to my disadvantage. Use it and abuse it! Now...I see a red flag and know when to say NO...this is not a good thing for me.
2006-11-21 17:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by jayjay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is extremely bizarre. Why would he go to your car while you were in the bathroom? That's ridiculous! and steal one dollar? Crazy. Don't confront him, don't even talk to him anymore. This man is insane and you should just keep your space.
2006-11-21 17:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by Juniper84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's PATHETIC! The guy robbed you for three dollars!!! He's sad and a loser.. But, remember this, always listen to your instincts, your gut told you not to trust him, and your gut was 100% right!
2006-11-21 17:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go and chalk it up to a bad date.
2006-11-21 17:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him. And remember...don't trust anyone.
2006-11-21 17:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by mreed316 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go. he sounds crazy..no need to give him reason to get angry. just cut off contact.
2006-11-21 17:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by c m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let it go... if he's sick enough to steal $1 he might be sick enough to do something worse... just don't see him any more.
2006-11-21 17:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by djstickylee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him and let it go.
2006-11-21 17:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by kristinaPearlxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him" you fell for it, now laterz" and like that he will feel dumb....
2006-11-21 17:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by *NANCY* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋