We broke up in September and 10 days later I spent a weekend with a great guy. We just kissed and slept next to eachother and it was a great break for me after all the drama with my Ex who i have known for 6 years now (long distance relationship). I had left him for someone else 2 years ago when I didnt feel the same and I can never understand why I hurt him when I really love him. Last week we met up in same town, we live 9000 kms apart, and he obsessively called n wanted to meet up. We spent an amazing night together and there were talks of what next when I knew it wouldnt work. He was into it again and he hacked into my email for some odd reason!! He read an email to my best friend about my weekend with that guy after our break up and set up this entire scene trying to ask me to marry him just to then read this email to me! thank god i said one day but not so soon! Its completely over and instead of being happy about it I dont know why I feel sad! I am lost!
2006-11-19 23:58:42 · 6 answers · asked by Curious George 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, he's not over it either. if you want to get over him, you have to cut off all contact, at least until you feel like you don't want to see him anymore. it's probably going to be longer since he still has feelings for you too. and if you were talking about what to do next but you know its not going to work, i wouldn't even put in the effort. if you think it won't work it won't. i think you're just sad cuz you hurt his feelings, because you know it wouldn't work out anyway. just move on.
2006-11-20 00:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you broke up, it was obviously for a reason. Don't go chasing relationships that aren't going to go anywhere, and don't go into relationships just to keep from hurting someone.
This guy obviously is either having a very hard time letting you go, or you're 'one hot mama' and he doesn't want anyone else to have you. Leave your relationship in the past, and move on. He'll do the same sooner or later (hopefully SOONER than LATER)
If you were to get into a serious relationship with someone else, that might expedite things a lil bit.
Hope this helps
2006-11-20 08:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look treat this as a "one night stand" and move on. There is a reason why this guy is your ex. Sounds like you both enjoy each other for sex and sex only. The other parts of a relationship seems to be what you both have difficulty with. So move on in your life, and if you stay single and you want another "one night stand" call him and I am sure he will oblige. But if you get involved with someone else this guy has to be total history.
2006-11-20 08:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You es is an ex for a reason. He hacked into your e-mail. That is not acceptable at all. Why would you ever want to put any energy into this guy at all? honey he is not worth a single tear. Move on to bigger, better things.
LOL
2006-11-20 08:04:42 · answer #4 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Started the same old crap again? huh! well, you didn't learn the first time so, get out now and stay away. Stop looking for that dream and get back to reality.
2006-11-20 08:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oww...guys can cheat you into feeling like that, you know. even tho they dont mean to. but maybe you feel guilty we all do we dont want to hurt them really but sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind...now stop returning calls before yo bury yourself in his head forever. get him a life or something set him up on a date with a random person ??lol show him your so over it (^ ^)
2006-11-20 08:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by soph y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋