My boyfriend and I see each other from friday till sunday, and usually have sex 3 times a week. Is it normal(for a man) to only want to do it one time? I've read/heard stories where men usually take a 5 min break and go at it again. I have no experience with other men(as he's my first), but is it because he's not turned on enough?
2006-11-19 23:41:47 · 19 answers · asked by African_Princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I usually needs at least 4-5 hours before I can even think about it again. All guys are different so there is no normal. It has nothing to do with how turned on he is because if he could, believe me he would!!!
2006-11-19 23:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first I'm having a little trouble with your cavalier attitude towards your "relationship". This boyfriend your investing yourself into at the cost of sex three times per week. I want you to remember this post when later your posting says, "my boyfriend is tired of me and wants a new girl how can I get him back". You must be reading a porn site because it takes a measure of time for a man to "reload". Oh I imagine there are those chemically enhanced studly men that are able to be a 60 min. man. Relax and be happy in your work.
2006-11-19 23:48:00 · answer #2 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldnt really matter about how many times this man can have sex on a given day. All that should matter is the experience was enjoyable and he took time to make sure he satisfied you. If you need it more than once you need to let him know. Most women would enjoy a man spending time with them from fri-sun doing things that you both enjoy. I guess age plays a part in what real satisfaction really is.
2006-11-19 23:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you're getting some!!! It would depend on his drive, stamina, whatever you would want to call it. Some men can do it, and keep going like the everreddy, so I have heard. It would be a matter of control as well!!! The being not turned on enough is probably not the case at all.
2006-11-19 23:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he could just be that type of guy. Many different guys do things very differently, trust me. If you really want to find out try finding a way to convince him to go at it for a second time and if he down right refuses ask him about it. If your having sex with him you should be able to have an honest conversation with him! Good Luck
2006-11-19 23:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kat A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope its not that he's not turned on enough,men differ really not all of them think with their thing, I'd say maybe its coz he's not a sex freak!!! or he isnt thinking about it(Sex) all the time, when he's with you he feels that forever thing you, liken its not just sx, there's emotion to it, so he doesnt see the need to be going on like there's no tomorrow.
2006-11-19 23:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it is very normal, that particular activity takes alot out of a guy. The old adage is quite true about guys rolling over and going to sleep.
2006-11-19 23:47:21 · answer #7 · answered by devilswing1983 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do it again after doing it once?? Right away? No way...that takes a lot out of a guy... my boyfriend always says he needs at least 3-4 hours in between lol I can't imagine any guy being capable of going at it again that quickly. so dont worry
2006-11-20 00:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by CoCo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal for some...he's probably just stuffed. Ther are men out there who are machines, 5min break and at it again. It's got NOTHING to do with you. If you love him just buy a vibrator and do it yourself....If your not satisfied, dump him and get a maniac.
2006-11-19 23:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by SpearTheBeardedClam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ont time in every position you can think of,then a short break and back at it till you say STOP!!
2006-11-20 00:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by jeepit123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋