who chose to be with someone else if you did how did you deal with it.
2006-11-19 23:27:48 · 17 answers · asked by Reaper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tal I Sorry I stole your question.
2006-11-19 23:38:19 · update #1
omigod, you stole my question...
i dont know what 2 do with miself...
if u find a way, u let me know...
for now i am just layin low, hoping the thing will pass, u know?
i wish things were different...but the guy is happy. i really love the guy, so i guess i should be happy for him even if itz some1 else who is making him happy...really wish it was me....
good luck man
2006-11-19 23:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by Tal I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard but you need to realize that maybe someday you guys may actually feel the same way about each other but as for now they chose whomever for a reason. You don't necessarily need to let her go but try and repress your feelings so that you don't get hurt in the end. Why dont you try looking for someone else? You never know you may find someone you love even more. I know I did!
2006-11-19 23:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by Kat A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and I think the best answer any one could give you is learn to let go. However for every person the steps to doing this are very different. Let yourself grieve, but also start to go out and meet other people. In the end time will help the most. Just don't try to be super human!
2006-11-19 23:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by The Guru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is how life is
actually it just means that you are growing up, look at it this way
she chooses him, and him doesn't choose her but chooses another
in actual fact they are the losers cos they lost true love
so keep looking the rule is love yourself more give yourself a treat ,go to the movies alone , a new haircut maybe and tell yourself the next one that comes along will be your soul mate,
you see, if you love yourself a little bit , usually some one will come along to help you
2006-11-19 23:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by john n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to let them go. You cant force someone to be with you. SHe made her choice, that is that. You never know she may realize down the road that she lost out! Find a new one!
XOXOXO
~Calicohottie
2006-11-19 23:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by calicohottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I have fallen for people who were older and not in a position to return the sentiment.
It's heart crushing.
2006-11-19 23:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by specs appeal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I Know how it feels but there is nothing left to do but move on
and I will pray that both of us will find someone who is worthy of use
2006-11-19 23:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have and it was long ago. I still think about her from time to time but thats about it. Im with another but I miss her. Its been 15 years but you must move on.
2006-11-19 23:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by MusicLover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time can mend a broken heart........its not easy, especially if you see her with the other person! Whatever you do, dont feel sorry for yourself.............Go out and meet new people, especially new girls.............. Dont look for a girlfriend, just date!
2006-11-19 23:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought I was in love with someone but they choose my friend over me so I tried to get over it. I still think about him everyday! Dont think I will ever get over him!
2006-11-19 23:38:14 · answer #10 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋