i'm 21 years old and currently dating a girl which is same age as me.we've been going out for almost 6 months and for the past 5 months i've tried purposed her to be my girlfriend.she rejected me with many excuses.
2006-11-19 23:24:57 · 17 answers · asked by beanto 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay, you been seeing her 5 months, dating her but she refuses to be your girlfriend, what is her reasons for going out on dates with you then.........could she possibly be using you........or are you and her friends? Are you expecting more than she is willing to give, has she mislead you in any way? I would ask her why she will not be your girlfriend, if she tells you she just wants to be your friend only, then you have a decision to make if you are willing to be just her friend to keep her in your life or if you are willing to stop seeing her so you can find someone who will return the love you are willing to give.
2006-11-19 23:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by txflowerblossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either she's not interested in the relationship so she's rejecting your offer.
Or if u have been facing these situations more than once, i suggest u read some books or materials on this topic and then improve yourself, charm, appeal etc etc. give it a shot develop that magnetic personality that will attract them to u. And be sincere and true to ur GF.
2006-11-20 07:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by Tanu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to convince someone to be with you, you are better off without that person. People should be with each other because we want to be, not because someone has convinced us that we should be. If you have to work this hard, she doesn't want to be with you that badly. Move on and find someone who's not so much work. Relationships are difficult enough, you shouldn't have to convince someone to be in it with you too.
2006-11-20 07:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then stop being so pushy and be more patient she obviously needs more time. Youv'e both got plenty of time don't rush her or you'll loose her.
Just accept being her friend for now she will appreciate that more than anything else.
2006-11-20 07:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok..........so you're saying that you've been dating a girl for 5 months but she's not your girlfriend?
2006-11-20 07:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot convince anyone to be a girlfriend or boyfriend. Its either going to happen or not.
Let her go. If she misses you she'll return.
If she doesn't, well either way you win!
2006-11-20 07:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by Carl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most probably she is not in love with you and does not want to commit herself to a relationship before she's sure.
2006-11-20 07:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by rinah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cause she want someone better in her mind she want you to do te impossiable you have to convince her that being with you is not settling with second best. or just drop her and date someone else lets see how made she get when she say something you say well you didnt want to be my girlfriend
2006-11-20 07:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by luis_11211 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have to convince her, then you may not want her. This sounds like it can only end badly.
2006-11-20 07:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by Lewis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on mate....
You are young, and life is short.
She may change her ideas when you are about to go on another date...
2006-11-20 07:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋