me and this guy were going out, all good right. year or two later someone asked him if we were still going out he denied it! then here recently he said we were. a week or two ago someone asked him if we were going out he didnt answer. we flirt, everyone knows we like eachother but we're both too scared to do anything. here it gets complicated, our school might consolidate and we'll be going to different schools. he's the only guy ive ever liked and i might never see him again! ive tried to move on but i just cant!
2006-11-19 23:06:11 · 9 answers · asked by cat coo coo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can't communicate together than there is something seriously wrong, he's confused.
Leave him alone and just go with the flow, whatever happens is a mystery and be patient, life will unfold slowly sometimes.
You'll be o.k. and in time you will look back and laugh at the problems you thought were huge but really not that big.
Good luck in your life.
2006-11-19 23:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything in life that's worth anything will probably require some work. Instead of wondering about his intentions and his feelings, build up enough courage to ask him directly how he feels about the two of you as an item. Do so in a private setting, so that he doesn't feel embarrassed by being 'put on the spot' in front of others. When you ask, don't do so in an interogating manner, do so kindly with a warm tone of voice, and then tell him that you are asking because you want to make a decision whether or not to pursue any type of relationship between the two of you.
2006-11-20 07:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has denied that you two are a couple it seems as though he has already "moved on" Get your self involved in school activities,take your time in moving on, get over him first,otherwise you'll end up breaking someones heart and yours will still be breaking. An endless cycle.You're better off being alone until you resolve your feelings about this guy otherwise you'll jump from one relationship to another and never find happiness
2006-11-20 07:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a serious secret relationship with a guy for 5 years, he cheated on me and we broke up.. so i know its hard to get over someone but if he doesnt make a commitment and say you're his girlfriend then something is wrong.. with me the guy didnt want to call me his girlfriend because he was playing and didnt want the other girls to realise cos then it'd be over with them.. email him or sms him and ask him if he likes you, if he wants you to be his girlfriends and take it from there.. if he says no then realise there are guys who will give their left arm to be with you..
hope i helped!
2006-11-20 07:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by S4Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is a journey not a guided tour.
2006-11-20 07:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by Midnight_Rider57 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love just try time heals all wounds you may think you can't move no but you can .
2006-11-20 07:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on another date and get him to talk to you alot!!!!
2006-11-20 07:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry he is moving on you will have too soon
2006-11-20 07:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by luis_11211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to move on????that's difficult
2006-11-20 07:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋