I don`t want to leave him but i need to work abroad & make future, it`s not easy for me to go cause i know there will be two options might be happen? its either he let me go & forget me? Or he stay contact with me?
He did`nt know about my plan, Im afraid to tell him maybe he will not understand my reason?
He`s been there in times of problems but i think its not fair that everytime i need help i will always depend on him. ( more on financially needs ).
I need to stand with my own feet and not securing myself on him all the time.
What should i do? Im really confused?
2006-11-19 22:46:08 · 5 answers · asked by Hidden 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him, explain slowly and honesty why you want to go and your plans for the future, try to convince him. In the end do whatever is better for you. If he loves you and believes you he will understand.
2006-11-19 22:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be able to stand on your own two feet, if he has a problem with this, then maybe you should take a closer look at your relationship with him. Sooner or later we are all alone and need to learn how to take care of ourselves. Independence will make you a stronger person
2006-11-20 06:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by txcatwoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him...he may just go along...you don't stand a chance unless you take a chance.
2006-11-20 06:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the best for your future, so leave.
2006-11-20 06:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should gooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!
good luck !
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2006-11-20 06:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋