What are your opinions? Is it immoral?
2006-11-19 22:42:38 · 19 answers · asked by Syddy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not asking for myself, I have no problems with sex before marriage. I just want to know why some people think it's immoral, especially for religious reasons etc.
2006-11-19 22:52:38 · update #1
I think that giving yourself to your new spouse on the night of your marriage is a gift you can only give once.
If you go ahead and sleep together, there is nothing special about your first honeymoon night.
I have always felt it was a gift to give, not something freely thrown away to every man who comes along
2006-11-19 22:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Oorah Wife 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Religions are a delicate thing. I respect people who live by it, but I'd never do it.
As said above, you need to try something before you buy it. For example, right now I'm in my relationship (I've been with him for almost 2 years, I lost my virginity to him, he's my first real boyfriend) and I don't think we're sexually compatible. And it's killing me because we have a good relationship! But if I just don't wanna have sex with him, what does that make us? FRIENDS. I can't marry this guy, I won't.
What if I had waited until marriage to have sex with him!!?? I would have had to DIVORCE the guy. No way! Too much mess that can be easily and pleasently avoided.
2006-11-19 23:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by mackenzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is one that many couples contemplate and what they complain about later. Most people will say, "Yes, you need to know!" Then they get married thinking they know what they have and 1 year down the road they are complaining that, "Its not like it used to be!" Since they based their marriage of how "Good" the sex was when it begins to fade so does their marriage. My wife and I really could not have sex prior to our marriage because we lived in different countries. We fell in love with each other just by talking and emailing each other. When we got married and made love it was like the 4th of July. We are both glad that we learned to love each other w\out sex because now making love is an extra special added benefit.
2006-11-19 23:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by Bluedigo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls are really the losers when they have sex before marriage. Sex is for procreation and intimacy within marriage. Sex is not just for pleasure. It is a grave sin and is immoral. The bible says so, too.
2006-11-19 22:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by Kellybelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b4 you even think about doing the evil nasty deed you better make sure you both have been tested for HIV/AIDS and any other related STD's. Don't open yourself up to a death sentence!
I wouldn't recommend casual sex---but---if you're in a committed relationship that has had longevity I don't find it immoral ----If you've been brought up in a religious home (Catholic, Baptist, or some other charismatic faith)----the religious teachings would say it was a SIN to have sex before marriage.
2006-11-19 22:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is relative. Myself, I believe that sex is part of developing a relationship. Others believe it is completely immoral. And of course all the others in between. It is for each person to decide for themselves.
2006-11-19 22:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immoral ???? No.....Let me put it this way ...if you are really truly serious about someone and are planning to get married soon, then you should try it...nothing can ruin a relationship quicker than being incompatible in the bedroom.....make sure you enjoy each other in every aspect before you tie the knot....good luck
2006-11-19 22:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i guess it dependes on what angle you are looking at it from,is it immoral from a religous angle.As for just generally speaking i would say if you can help it good for you that's great and if you can't always protect yourself.Finally i can say it is a very personal thing so it just dependes on every ind.
2006-11-19 22:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES & all it does is cause problems !
The guy & girl VERY seldom end up staying together
( why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free,
as they say) & sometimes the girl gets pregnat when
she did not mean to, then you have another problem to deal w/ !
Then if & when the guy & girl break up it's hard to be around eachother & it's hard to start a new relationship
w/ someone else.
2006-11-19 22:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Buy a car without test driving it? MOVE to a house without seeing it? buy clothes or a TV or anything on life without seeing it working?
It is not only immoral not to have sex it is the most ridiculous waste of a life. Only the religious, the frigid and the repressed females and the undersize or under performing men wait.........try before you buy.or repent for the rest of your wasted life.....
2006-11-19 22:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋