from someone you have very strong feelings for.................
2006-11-19 22:28:38 · 26 answers · asked by life_vamp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time. Time heals all.
If this person doesn't share your feelings, it will be hard to take and you will feel hopeless for a while. You will have a feeling of hopelessness that the only person you have feelings for doesn't feel the same way.
In time you will feel a lot better and he won't be the only person you feel about this way.
Firstly, you shouldn't take it personally. You havn't been rejected because youre unnatractive or have a bad personality. Different people like different things in other people. It's just a matter of taste. It's a fact (it really is) that there are other people out there, not far away, maybe a friend of a friend, who won't be able to get enough of you. :-D
Also, you will meet someone else to have feelings for very soon. I know that's a cliche, but it's true. You may think right now that the odds of meeting another person you feel the same as this guy about are slim. Some people think there is only ONE person out there who is right for you... your soul mate. Well, if that were true, then the odds of meeting that person, ever(!) would be almost nil! And if that were true, how coincidental would it be that your soul mate always seems to live in your town/work in your office/go to the same parties?
People are meeting great new people all the time, because there are loads of people out there not far away who will love you for who you are. It's just a question of being sociable. Say yes to invitations, meet new people and you will meet someone new soon.
In the mean time, just resign yourself to the fact that you may not be -his- cup of tea, but it doesn't mean that someone else wont think you're a great brew. ;-))
2006-11-19 22:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by -=Matt=- 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger the first thing I'd do is get very drunk and start a huge row so I have the last say. Pathetic I know. I can relate though someone I love has told me he can't settle down with me yet and needs to be on his own for a while to sort himself and his head out (messed up by crazy ex b i t c h)/ (screw around a bit more like!) Anyway, explain what he means to you in a calm manner and if he still doesn't budge act like your cool with it and for a short time keep doing the nice things (non sexual) you were doing before, this will just remind him that you really are great. Then cut him off. When your out his life he'll realise that no-one is there for him the way you were and that he's a pratt. By then it'll be too late and he'll be left wondering 'what if'. Plus, by then you will hopefully be being appreciated by someone who deserves your time.
2006-11-20 10:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not easy. All of of us are going to experience rejection at one time or the other. Talk to your friends. I have recently had to deal with rejection and find it hard. Good luck
2006-11-20 06:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Though sometimes it can be very hard to be rejected by someone you have very strong feelings for, I guess you will eventualy overcome it, and found and love someone alse.
2006-11-20 06:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by Avner Eliyahu R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a few days off from your work - very very important.
have a good rest and sleep.
talk to your good friends.
she or he must have a good reason to leave you. treat yourself with respect and more love.
you will find better girls out there waiting for you.
ps: if your friend(s) tell you to woo her back, do not try it as it will ruin everything.
just look for other girl.
important: there are so many girls out there. there will be 1 who matches you and is compatible with you.
take your time to commit to a new relationship.
love and marriage is holy.
good luck!
mercury of love
2006-11-20 06:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by mercury of love 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sort of dealing with that right now, OK in my case I have not been rejected as such but its the not knowing that hurts, she does not know what she wants.
I suppose rejection is the end. as not knowing is what if.
rejection is the end of hope, everything collapses.
2006-11-20 08:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by sija_uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it can be one of the worst possible feelings besides having a loved one die. U just need to move on, find someone else u like and stick with them.
2006-11-20 06:33:06 · answer #7 · answered by ThePanMan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey YOU!!.. don't look back in despair. only look forward with optimism.. Remember 2moro is the 1st day of the rest of your life and looking forward to new things is more beneficial than moping around in the past..
In other words move on and forget him..
2006-11-20 07:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by robert x 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
simply block it out and be patient. dont do anything rush. Let time heal things but get urself busy with work and all. That shud help.
2006-11-20 06:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your head up high and move on wth your life like it never happened
2006-11-20 06:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by shiva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋