i went out the other night with my girl that have not been with for long and had a few drinks not many and stayed at her house and i wet her bed now she as asked do i do this all the time i do not no what to say coz i do but do not what to loss her should i lie but if i stay she will fined out ?
2006-11-19 22:08:16 · 14 answers · asked by funboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you genuinely have a problem with this, you should definitely tell her the truth. For one thing, if you spend many more nights with her you're not going to be able to hide it anyway, and for another thing, if she's really worth having as a long term partner she'll support her for who you are and work with you on this. Explain to her that you have a medical problem and be open to her suggestions about what you can do to make the situation more comfortable for her -- whether that means seeing a doctor, putting a waterproof sheet between yourself and the mattress, or even wearing some absorbent undergarments when you spend the night with her. If she is willing to support you in this, the least you can do is whatever you can do to make her comfortable sleeping with you.
If she's going to reject you because of this problem, though, you might as well come clean and get it over with now rather than dragging things out -- because if this is a recurring problem for you, she's certain to find out eventually, and if she's going to reject you because of this problem, she's not someone you want to be with for the long term anyway.
I know it's hard, but suck it up, find the courage and tell her the truth! You're not the only teen or young adult to struggle with bedwetting -- LOTS more people do than you might think, and there are lots of understanding women out there who will like you for who you are, regardless of whether you happen to have a weak bladder. I struggle with the same problem occasionally, and my girl knows about it and is totally cool about it. If this girl isn't cool about it for you, there are plenty of others out there who will be. Hang in there and good luck! If you have any other questions on this or want to talk about it more, feel free to email me through my profile.
2006-11-22 07:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't honestly be considering not telling her the truth.. Come on man , tell the truth and shame the devil.. You'd look so bad in her eyes if you lied and then you did it again ,, Try stopping drinking
2006-11-19 23:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your spelling I'd say you are 6 or 7.. which is a very old age for someone wetting his bed!
2006-11-19 22:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by mr_dark_eyed 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Ahhhhhhhh tell her the truth. She might be willing to get you some help.
Do you have a weak bladder or are you just lazy to get up a night?
Go see a doctor, get some help.
2006-11-19 22:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
then you need to go get checked...you may have bladder problems...i hope you apologised and took the wet bedding off and put it in the washer...how embarrassing....
2006-11-19 22:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak to a doc or ya mum
2006-11-19 22:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously u have a medical problem, don't lie to her just tell the truth, if she loves you enough she'll help you find some proffesional help.
2006-11-19 22:14:01 · answer #7 · answered by angelic_234 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
i'm sorry to hear this. u must see doc before it gets worse. i knw the consequences, it sucks :(
2006-11-19 22:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really cares about u she will understand, if she is nasty about it then she isnt worth worrrying about
2006-11-19 22:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by helen i 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have problems
u wee the bed
baby's do that
wot are you three
u suck penis
and smell of old people
2006-11-19 22:24:44 · answer #10 · answered by hellwot 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋