My girlfriend and I have been together for about 7 months now and we get on famously. We share so many interests, thoughts and always share the same wave-length and sense of humour.
The problem being is that she currently lives in Leeds and I live in London. We have spoken about living together and whilst this is something that we both want and feel is right........one of us (or both) will have to up sticks and move. Now she is settled in Leeds and has no intention of ever moving to London so the dilemma is whether to forge a new life and career in West Yorkshire or try and reach a compromise somewhere in between?
Would you feel happy about moving into your partner's house or feel more comfortable finding somewhere new?
2006-11-19 21:26:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were as sure as the 2 of you sound in a heart beat! Good Luck!
2006-11-19 21:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by Julia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, chances are you wouldn't settle in leeds after London so I would go with the first answer which suggested that you choose somewhere new to both of you. I would also try to get your g/f to look at some areas in and around London as it would make some sense to live there where you, at least, have a job. Perhaps if she saw the right property / location she might change her mind. Failing that, both of you should compromise a little and choose a mutually acceptable location.
2006-11-19 21:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I'd make her move in London as there are more job opportunities etc, the only problem is the cost of living is higher there....it depends if you can really see a future at the end of the day....good luck
2006-11-19 21:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by xx_lush_xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly the flaws which you're saying could assist you already know why he has an EX. maximum of circumstances human beings finally end up in relationships just to have a relationship ... don't be a style of individuals. You and your infants ought to interrupt loose from this guy. You lived without him in the past you met and you will actual stay without him now. it's time to circulate on because of the fact neither of you are able to substitute one yet another. What you're describing would not sound like a stable subject on your loved ones. i could propose counseling on your low self esteem on only why you think of you choose for him. you do no longer choose for him. he's definitely no longer worth some time or love or something so please end pretending. You and your infants are people who will go through if this maintains. The extra accomodating you're to him, the extra it's going to circulate on and on. you're proving to him that he can smash out with the threats of leaving so they proceed. end it. i could extremely stay in a container than stay in an emotional penitentiary. you choose for the capability to end this because of the fact he won't as long as he can control you. it's time to exert your self to do what's precise for you and your infants... no longer his.
2016-11-25 20:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't try u will never know if it would have worked. try it but try to leave yourself enough funds set aside to return if it all goes south. good luck!
2006-11-19 21:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF YOU BOTH REALLY LIKE EACH OTHER THEN YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO COMPROMISE AND MOVE TO BE WITH EACH OTHER.
2006-11-19 21:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't she might be pimpin you bro.
2006-11-19 21:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mr.Why? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋