well if u read my other questions u will know whats goin on.. i have more insite to add on what i said after we went on this break i gave her her birthday gifts.. she would not answer my phone calls on texts so i desided to just leave her gifts on her front porch and text her telling her they where there.. an hour later i went back to her house to see if they where still there. they where gone. i texted her askin her if she got the gifts and if she did if she would please respond to my text and tell me if she got them and i would leave her alone. she never responed. now i want to talk to her and ask her what the problem is and why she wanted to go on a break but im afried if i try to talk to her she may get even more mad at me and not want to get back together. should i respect her space or try to find out whats going on. its really messing me up inside.
2006-11-19 20:20:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just leave her alone, you wont get her back this way...
2006-11-19 21:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there I only have heard this part of the story, so i give it my best shot at what i think is going on....
I think that you need to take a step back, and come away from the situation for everything to calm down a bit. (Which I know is easier said then done)!
Do you really love this girl? Is she worth the hurt?
If so..........
It sounds like the girl needs space and you need to give her that.
Tell her that you will give her space and let her know that you will be there for her.
Leave it a few days without any phone calls and messges and wait till she gets back you. Dont come across pushy and constantly there. Let her do the wondering for a while to let her come to you.
Good luck
2006-11-19 20:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by chloe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she asked for some space, then give it to her. She needs that respect from you. It's too bad that she didn't tell you why. You could text message her once a day to let her know you still care about her and that you are willing to listen to her if she needs to talk. If it is messing you up, then maybe it's time to let her go. It is just a thought.
2006-11-19 20:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok she has something to hide... she probly had her other boyfriend in the house or something.. like I said get rid of her and find a real woman...
p.s. I am single and I would not treat you like that..
sparklekiss24@aol.com
or
sparkle_4_u_2_day@yahoo.com
if you need more advice just ask me -k-
lol just a thought.. good luck sweetie
2006-11-19 20:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by The Hottie With The Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to find out what's wrong so that you can resolve it, but try not to invade too much. Maybe ask a few of her close friends? See if they know or could find out something for you.
2006-11-19 20:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by doggy13is 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should really take care of yourself now. sounds like you may come off as a stalker. did this chick know you were dating? forget about her and have some fun
2006-11-19 20:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by Pipi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋