I have a long story, i have now two exs, the first one i dated for 5 months, and we talked for 3 months before dating, and i broke up with her and a week later started dating a different girl, for about a month and a half, and i never cheated the first one, the second one i cheated on tonight with the first one and i dumped her. because my best friend tricked me by telling me that him and my first ex were dating and i came out of remission i guess and got jealous and realized the truth i still love the first one, but when i broke up with the second one she got sick and lost it, i broke her heart. I HATE BREAKING HEARTS!!! but i wasn't happy with her anymore. we might have been able to work it out but we broke up three times in one month.
2006-11-19 20:15:20 · 8 answers · asked by Andrew E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're no longer happy with her, then I guess you did the right thing by breaking it up with her. But dude, you cheated on her. And I don't think you would be able to work it out either, because I think you're no longer willing to work it out. I think what you've wanted all along was to break it up with her and you cheating on her with your ex was, I think, that's when you decided that you have to end the relationship. It's kinda messed up right now, but it will turn out right in the end. And hey, one headache at a time, okay? (that means one relationship at a time)
2006-11-19 20:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wasn't meant to be with the second one. You cheated on her and could not hold it together for one month. Still love the first one? Then give it a shot. You did right. Good luck.
2006-11-19 20:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i guess it was the right thing. A quick word of advice from a dude that's been around the block so many times his head spins: It Rarely work out the second time around.
2006-11-19 20:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by espactor 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes no matter what, you shouldn't have cheated. Shouldve broken it off first. That was not fair to her.
2006-11-19 20:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by Cody B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea you did.
people's hearts get broken, its a way of live.
are you going to have you soul deminshed because you're afraid of being the ******?
you did the right thing.
2006-11-19 20:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by Joey Joe, yo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sould like you are ready for a relationship.
But be honest with the women you meet - You will both be happier.
2006-11-19 20:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by laceykd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my guess is you're still young. you are very indecisive. i pity your 2nd gf. she did nothing to you to deserve what you did. you change gf's like you are changing your clothes. well atleast she is now free from your indecisiveness and hopefully she finds someone who will not treat her like that.
2006-11-19 20:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but you should not have cheated on her though.
2006-11-19 20:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋