I have known this guy since 9th grade. We liked each other he asked me out and I said no. Later on we meet on myspace as friends. As time goes by he starts to tell me he likes me, and he wants me to come down to Cali to see if theirs something there. That happened in Sept. Now I have this dream about him and now I like him...ALOT!! But he started talking to his ex girlfriend and I believe he got her pregnant. He always said she was a ***** but in reailty he was going to her. I dont know what to do. His ex or whatever always bashed me because she knows we had a past. If he liked me why wouldnt he stick up for me? What should I do? Should I tell him how I feel? When I get to Cali should I see him? HELP!
2006-11-19 19:48:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find another guy...
2006-11-19 22:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a liar and a fake....if you are young dont put your life on hold for a man who is "confused".......since he will be a new dad I think he will be going through a lot and be very involved in his "ex's" pregnancy and life because they share a child. Unless you are willing to be #3 all the time dont stick around if you are not deeply in love with him, meaning that is the man you want to marry.
2006-11-19 20:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by precious z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about this guy.
If you really liked a person, would you let someone else bash them?
If you really liked a person, would you go sleep with someone else?
Think about it. He's saying one thing about her (calling her names) and then running to her for sexual indulgence. Doesn't exactly sound like a kind, responsable, dependable, or trustworthy guy.
Trust me, there are lots of guys out there like this one, and none of them are worth wasting your time on. They won't change as long as nice girls like you keep giving them chances. Show him that is behavior is unacceptable by cutting him out of your life. Find yourself a guy who has all the same desirable traits but who treats you like a person who is worth something.
Good luck!
2006-11-19 19:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by p_i_turtle_sanders 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to stay away from that situation since there is a pregnancy involved. Go find you someone else. He is not worth it.
2006-11-19 19:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know what to do...your answering your own question. This guy might look as if he is the one but in reality..he is just a scum bag.
2006-11-19 19:51:54 · answer #5 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. You don't need any baby mama drama and it sounds as if he is just using you until he makes up his mind.
2006-11-19 19:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by Suga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone new dont waste your time with the guy if he doesnt know what he wants.
2006-11-19 19:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't pry unless he needs you. be a friend till she screws up and then take your chance.
2006-11-19 19:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him.
2006-11-19 19:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-11-19 19:51:36 · answer #10 · answered by ralphtae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋