About 2 months ago I met this guy at church and each week he would think of ways to talk to me. I thought he was cute but i didnt think anything of it. finally I told him my name and so did he. the next week I saw him at a church social and he started talking to me and asked if he can walk me to the car. He did. After that it has been 3 weeks since we have been some wat seeing each other. we have not had sex yet but every time were with each other we cant keep our hands of each other. Ive seen him at work and he tells me that his workes say I am a good catch. I dont know I guess I am confused. I dont know if he likes me or just wants sex?
2006-11-19 19:42:59 · 10 answers · asked by jessica q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion, if you do fun things together, talk and laugh and go out places to dinner etc. he probably likes being with you. If he doesnt want to do anything with you except go someplace to make out and try for more, he probably just wants sex. Get to know him first, and in time you will understand more of his views on sex and relationships. The only thing I want to warn you about, is guys can be great decievers (so can girls) but its usually guys that use girls for sex rather than vice versa. Also, if he just wants sex, probably sooner than later he will stop seeing you if you dont give it to him. Go slowly.
2006-11-19 19:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, this is where it gets tricky. I can say 2 things...1) if you give it up too soon he is likely to think you are easy and move on to someone else 2)if he cares about you then when you do give in he shouldn't go anywhere. Unfortunately there is no right answer on how soon is too soon. It's a 50/50 chance & it's your call. But just be prepared, because if he starts acting funny such as shying away or only coming around if he thinks he might get lucky then get rid of him because all he's thinking of is sex.
2006-11-19 19:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One way to find out if you he likes you or just wants to have sex is not to have sex. At any point if he tries to get you to do something you don't want physically that is your first clue that he does not have your well being in mind. I would say try to be friends first but it sounds like it's too late for that. I don't know what church you go to but normally people who go to church abstain from sex before marriage. If you could do this you wouldn't be worried about him using you. It would be a non-issue.
2006-11-19 19:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start asking him some serious and challenging questions before making that plunge. Dont ask him easy ones, like "do you like me for my mind, or just want to have sex?".. You know what an answer to that could be, and wont have anything new to go off of. Also, why not wait if you are pushed? Any male that respects you will be patient, and not be overbearing or pushy!
2006-11-19 19:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody wants sex, that is undeniable. What is hard to determine is if a person actually likes you in addition to wanting sex.
You got to find out if he likes you, but being a cold fish is not the way to do it. And your obviously sexually attracted, so go for it and see what happens.
2006-11-19 19:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him wait. That is the only way to know. If you give in too your primal urges he will most certainly lose interest.
For many guys it is about the challenge.
2006-11-19 19:46:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay strong, if he really likes you he will be willing to wait for the prize. Let him get prostitutes and you stay lady like. Good luck.
2006-11-19 19:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you wont know untill u have sex. If he seems like a geuine guy give it a chance if you feel comfortable with him.
2006-11-19 19:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by Oakland Please, Just Win Baby! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask that question, then yes, it's just for sex.
2006-11-19 19:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by Suga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bolth
2006-11-19 19:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋