Oh man am I nervous just typing about this right now. Well I'm a senior now, the girl I like is a sophomore. She's given me alot of signals we talk a little right now but that's because we're both kinda shy and nervous. Well she and her best friend want to go to the winter formal together as a fun thing. Her best friend is a girl btw. But yea. Well... She told me she's going with her friend probably so I'd go too, but she also told me it that way so I wouldn't ask her since she doesn't want her best friend to feel left out.
I'm planning on going as well but just with a couple friends "no date" I was going to ask her out to the formal but I don't want to ruin her fun or her friends. Plus if I do ask her out she'll kinda leave her friend hanging and that will make a hard decision on her to make.
So I plan to go alone and slip in my slow dance with her when I think the time is right. Question is... How do I ask her? And... when the slow dance is over what do I say and do...
2006-11-19 19:34:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-19 19:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say ask her to a fast dance first. Don't worry about "marrying" her at the formal. If she really likes you, there are other times.
Just smile and ask her if she'd like to dance.
when that's over, play it by ear and assuming all goes o.k., a bit later ask her for a slow dance. If you are really uncomfortable, wait.
Go with the flow, since how she reacts. Is she staring in your eyes smiling alot or what? Be consious abut whether the timing is right for her too; e.g., is she embarassed because everyone you know is watching.
Afterwards? Eat together with her and her friend. If she's bringing a friend, you are not gonna have the chance to slip off with her after anyway.
2006-11-19 19:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... your problem is simple. Look at the big picture here... she is talking to you about the dance period, that's a good thing. As long as she isn't brushing you off about the dance then you have nothing to lose. Sounds like she's into you. You'll regret it if you don't ask her to dance one the 1st or second slow dance. That way while you're dancing you can ask if she'd like to have the next slow dance. Who knows you might end up dancing with her most of the night. You don't want to give the opportunity for some other guy to snag her up. At the very worst you'd at least feel better knowing you asked and got turned down instead of not asking and never knowing if she would've. Go for it!
2006-11-19 19:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is one thing that alwayse seems to work its confidence. Dont be all tentative and stuff like that. Think inside your going to ask her to dance and shes going to say yes. after the dance maybe go get some food or something. get one of your friends to come along so her friend doesnt feel left out and you get to talk to your girl 1 on 1. Main thing is be CONFIDENT.
2006-11-19 19:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by Oakland Please, Just Win Baby! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her to dance. Don't think to much about it. She either dances with you or not. Either way don't take it too seriously. Girls are hard to understand sometimes. When people like your girl are with their friends they don't always act the way they would if they were alone. What I am saying is don't read too much into it. Try to have fun. Help her to have fun. Guaranteed girls like guys they can have fun with.
2006-11-19 19:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friends and I always tend to form circles at dances, so make sure you're both in the same circle, and when a good song comes on, say, "Do you want to dance?" It's that easy. After the song is over, you can say, "You're a good dancer." or "So, are you having a good time?" or "Aren't the decorations great?" or whatever feels right.
Good luck!
2006-11-19 19:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by K-Rex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her with a smile and say if i told you you had a beautiful body would you hold it against me. then take her hand and walk her on to the dance floor works all the time
2006-11-19 21:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by seattle1961a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel...u cud tap her onda shoulder, luk into her eyes, bow slighty...n say may i hav this dance. when the dance is over...ask her if she'l take a walk with u, make conversation with her...n when u get 2 a quiet spot wher u hav a bit of privacy...tel her exactly how u feel...
2006-11-19 19:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls usually ask me, but if i do wanna dance with a particular girl i just ease up next to her slowly and naturally and if u see her come closer to u, u noe that means yes, if not back off
2016-03-29 02:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach her...and tell her you wanted to spend the night of the dance with her...after the dance take her to a romantic spot and walk and talk get to know her...
2006-11-19 19:38:15 · answer #10 · answered by LaDy in Luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is king. It is hard but if you man up and show courage and initiative she will respond.
2006-11-19 19:39:50 · answer #11 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋