Friendly Advice?? I'm frustrated!?

Question

Ok.. I am exploding with passion, love and just want to experience life and everything it has to offer to the fullest! Only, I want to do this with my boyfriend. We've been dating a little over 2 yrs and he's in Criminal Justice in Lethbridge. Longterm is hard! I love him with all my heart and want to spend my life with him.. I'm ready to get engaged. I don't think he's at the same stage as I am. I know we're young (20 yrs) but being engaged doesn't mean we have to get married asap.. I'm not in a rush but I know I'm ready and this is what I want out of life right now. I really want someone to be with, watch movies with, learn to cook with, get a place.. Start Life! I'm not sure if I should wait for him ..? Or move on and find someone else who is more on my level?? Someone who is ready and wants the same as I do..

Sorry, in the CJ program to become a police officer! Not In Jail..

Answer 1

Pray about it first, before making any decisions.

Answer 2

You are both young...why rush into this? You answered your own question..you know this is what you want right now.....this decission is not a "right now" decission..this is a life time commitment, albeit in the beginning stages. Comming from a guys perspective, this is how he is looking at it. Life is not just about one person when you are talking about getting engaged. While you have to look out for yourself, in this kind of quest, 2 hearts have to be on the same page, not just one.....

Answer 3

well if you love him then you should wait but you are young and if i were you i would not put my life on hold for him. Go out and enjoy life sweetheart and things will fall into place by themselves. I am 37 and just got engaged for the first time to a wonderful american girl but you are a bit younger than me and deserve a chance at exploring your options. Good luck girl

Answer 4

Yeah sounds like your rushing. Your still young. Just keep having fun with him and trying to better both of your situations. When you guys got your own place, got everything worked out, got your jobs and your 100% ready then go for it. But jumping into something is how you get stuck with 3 kids, while your husband is with another woman paying you child support. So.. Whoa Nelly.

Answer 5

I probably miss understood about your boy friend status. Is he a Prison Guard or is he an Inmate?
When we are used to having sex on a regular basis and it stops for any reason we go into passion explosion as you stated. After about three months it gradually goes away.
I need more info before I can really give you sound advise.
My email is [e-mail].
If you want my help you are free to talk it over. maybe it might take your mind off your problem and you will see things as they really are. Sometimes it can be a shock to the system, but you get over it.

Answer 6

Think about what you say"...exploding with passion,love....only with my bf and want to spend my life with him....I am ready, don't think he is at the same stage,should I wait for him, or find somwe one else."

OK just move on, and consider some of the words above just as slip of the tongue.

Answer 7

Ok so do you mean he`s in jail?
Will speaking from experience I waited for a man once who was serving time.wrong thing to do.
You are only going to face hardships,(hoping not)but those are the chances.
If I were you,move on and find yourself a decant,good man.
Take care*hugs*

Answer 8

find someone who is not in jail.. who is ready for the same things you are.... but dont settle just because you want a boyfriend.... Your perfect match is out there someplace... if you settle for someone who is NOT the one than you may miss him.

good luck