How to get back at my husband for staying out late hours of the night? how can i make him feel my pain?

Answer 1

be incredibly nice, kiss him when he gets in, and make sure he had a good time, the guilt will kill him, and then let him know you're going to a mlae strip club with the girls next weekend, for a funny birthday party ofcourse, and then just go to a friends house and watch and see how many times he calls, and when he gets mad tell him you had a change of plans because you just didn't feel right going because you didn't want to hurt him, he will feel like a complete prick!

Answer 2

Why don't you go out as well, and come back late, you don't need to tell him where you are going. Then ask a friend if you could stay over at her's for the night, and pack some clothes and put them in your car making sure that he doesn't see. If he is at home make sure that you dress up to the nines and then as you leave say see you in the morning. If he isn't at home just make sure you leave a note saying see you in the morning.

Then make sure that you start going out on a regular bases even if you just start taking evening classes or salsa classes just don't tell him what time you will be back and just go out. Always with a smile and when you get back, always be smiling and humming

Answer 3

You got to know to play the game better than he is if you are up to risking everything to get your husband to feel your pain then I recogmend that you stay out late to. First you have to get a make over that makes his rattler stand every time he sees you. You should start having fun with friends at work as in going to the club and parties but remember this is only to make him go wild not to start as a new life. Sometimes you get trapped in the game so go in with your head in the game. He would then confront you about your late night parties and guess what strike a bargain with him if he stays home then so will you because you get lonely when he isn't there and if his night life starts again then so wil yours.

Answer 4

Pack your bag, take yourself off to a nice hotel for 2/3 nights, relax with a good book, go shopping, laze around and have some YOU time. Don't contact him for the first 12/24 hours (don't want the Police looking for you), when you do speak to him tell him that you've been thinking about "things ie his out of hours behaviour", go home with a bit of a sullom face but just don't say too much. See if that gets any response.

Answer 5

You do not mention what he is doing when he is out late. Is he working and bringing home more money for the family? Is he hanging out with friends at work. Is he hanging out at strip clubs?

While they all equate to him not being home they all have different answers.

Not knowing which question is the one you are asking I will answer all three of these for you.

1. making money..... Sit down and do the budget, does your family need the extra money? If so be greatfull that he is willing to work the extra hours. Get a job for yourself during his working hours to show solidarity.

2. Go with him. After work functions at a lot of places is family stuff. We go out once a week and our spouses are always welcome to come with us.

3. Here is a difficult answer but my friend said and did it best. She got a job at the club where they were going and was there the night they were there. Told her husband as long as its ok for you to come here, its ok for me to work here.

None of these may help you as they may not fit your question exactly. I will be happy to help, I just need to have a more distinct question from you. Feel free to email me.

Answer 6

Depends on what you want. If you want your relationship to deteriorate to divorce stage, by all means get back at him in a big way.
If you just want him to spend more time at home you have to use the carrot and the stick approach. Instead of nagging him about his late night antics, be loving and sexy and tell him what delicious delights await him when he comes home early. If he comes home late, give him the cold shoulder, don't nag.

Answer 7

Why is he staying out late? If it is his job then whats the problem. If he's going out then you really need to sit down with him & have a talk. You are a couple, if he's just going out then why don't you go with him? Communication is the key in a relationship to make it work. If he doesn't want to take you with him then theres a problem & I wouldn't put up with it. Take care & good luck

Answer 8

Girl,
There is no point at getting back at him. You keep doing your part. I promise in the end he will feel your pain. why because when you are tired an decide to go out too, or not come back home he will see what he has done!

Answer 9

Go out yourself with girlfriends. Was he an inconsiderate *** and not call you? Do you trust him? If the answer is no, then you do have options. Why waste your time. Trying to make him feel your pain is a waste of anyones time and not healthy in a relationship.

Answer 10

Try 2 be more seductive and make sure he feels free 2 talk 2 u about anything.DONT say anything like "were u out with another woman ".This will make it worse.Anyway, while u are waiting 4 him to come entertain yourself or sleep and put an alarm.Try calling him once or twice only.Hope thee best and youe marriage survives.