Homosexuality to heterosexuality?

Question

Can a person who has had sex with the same sex ever enjoy sex with the opposite sex?if that person wants to change his/her way of life?...is there any website on this kind of info....homosexualtiy to heterosexuality?

Answer 1

I would think so if they were bi. If however, they are homosexual then I shouldn't think they would want to anyway.

Answer 2

Each person has the "equipment" to have sex with a member of the opposite sex.
Sex can be enjoyed or disliked even if one is hetro. Mostly its a matter of the mind as you can dislike sex with your partner even if you are hetro. Its not complex, you like some cakes and dislike others but you can learn to like the cakes you used to dislike and vica-versa.
If you grow up in a red-neck environment, I guess a man would find it difficult to "come out" so he may not even realise he is a little different. He could easily marry but never realise sex could be so much better. Thats what happens quite often when someone realises they are homosexual and the marriage ends with a different relationship then starting up.

Answer 3

I had a friend who kept going out with these guys who would leave her for men. I am certain it was probable that they were gay to begin with, or at least interested in a relationship with a man. One went around picking up guys off a chatline after fathering two kids with her. What can I say, she slept with girls as a teenager, too. A lot more of that stuff goes on than people realize.

Of course, her chlamydia, constant neediness, chain-smoking and appetite for drugs may have had something to do with it. She also gave them a lot of money when they asked for it, suggesting they were gigolo types maybe.

A number of married couples, not the majority, engage in sex with others and practice swinging. Some women are interested in cooking dinner, watching movies, working and hanging out with friends and couldn't be bothered with their husbands. Mistresses do not bother them and it isn't embarrassing. He just tells her he 'working late' and she goes out to a charity fundraiser in a new Chanel jacket and jeans and enjoys champagne, beer and appetizers with her friends and a jazz band.

Answer 4

I am heterosexual, and if that was not acceptable in our society and I wanted to "change my life" to conform to society, I cannot imagine EVER being attracted to the same sex.

I would imagine it's pretty much the same for the homosexuals. If they try, it just won't fit. I don't think it would ever truly feel "right" to them.

Just go with what feels right and be true to yourself! Always!

Answer 5

Hi, I would say it's a bit of a spectrum of shades of sexuality, but that the person must be aware of trying to be something he/she is not. Many conservative religious groups would talk about 'healing from homosexuality' so if you are interested you could check out maybe an Assemblies of God website. There are some proper organisations also but the name eludes me! Mess about with your search engine. But most importantly be true to who you are. I went out with someone who decided he wasn't gay anymore when he was with me, and it all ended in disaster because he was trying to be someone else. All the best

Answer 6

First answer this...if you put your ideal man next to your ideal woman and you could only pick only one to live with on a deserted island which one would you pick? If you picked the same sex don't bother trying to change, if you picked the opposite sex because of social pressure and family expectation...pick again and don't bother to try to change and last if you picked the opposite sex because it was just a phase or experiment keep your choice. With any of the choices you make, be happy, or make new choices. You only have to be happy with yourself, any God who created man and all of his complexities loves you the way you are and so will your family or they are small minded hillbillies.

Answer 7

There are many people who enjoy sex with both sexes, they are known as bi-sexual. It is not a matter of wanting to change your way of life, it is a matter of who you are attracted to and whether you are attracted enough to perform sex.
If you are a man, you need to experience sexual desire for a woman in order to penetrate her. If you are a woman, and, for instance, wished to conceive with a man, you would only need to lie there, even without desire, in order to perform a sexual act.
This is not something you learn from a website. You must follow your instincts, and your desire, taking care not to hurt anyone, including yourself.
Being bisexual means taking each person as you find them, regardless of their sex. I have known gay men who have fallen in love with women and married them and been happy.
If this should be your case, you have to acknowledge that you may always feel some desire for males, even though you are married to a female. You would have to learn to control that desire and how to be happy/satisfied with your wife. Always take AIDS tests and always have protected sex.

Answer 8

Homosexuality is abnormal.The nature is hetro and anything against nature is not good.But be happy .You can correct abonormality.One trial of hetrosexuality will convince you which is better.If you have the will you can change at any time.Remember nature has made hole and dick as complimentary and there is no substitute.

Answer 9

There are many documented cases of homosexuals becoming heterosexual so ignore the manic rants that this is impossible clearly such people are disturbed.

Answer 10

JHMHSI you said all that and did not answer the question....

TAAP I guess you should have just went to google, rather than be cursed out....

God Bless you in your journey to find yourself.

Answer 11

You cant change what you are, no more than i can change from heterosexual to homosexual, otherwise we would all be able to whenever we chose. If you suppress what you are though it could lead to all sorts of psychological problems. Best to just be yourself.