bf troubles...serious!?

Question

so my bf charlie has been ignoring me lately and things just arent how they used to be. he used to send me love letters like almost everyday and write me poetry and romantic stuff. but now he doesnt include me in his life. what should i do?

Answer 1

Move on...

Answer 2

Talk to him about it... Ask him how he feels... It sounds like maybe he's taking you for granted perhaps? Or needs some space? Take a break, or just maybe go away on holidays with your girlfriends or something? Guys want what they cant get, they're a bit of a pain sometimes... Ive had similar troubles with my man at times...

It may be hard, but dont be as available... Resist calling him or texting him as much as you do... He needs to chase you! Go away for a bit, a week a weekend, come back, & if he doesnt kick his game, then tell him its not good enough..... Tell him it's about time he includes you in his life, or otherwise it'll be too late & you won't include him in yours! Good luck whatever happends, hope it turns out for the best.

Answer 3

I reccomend talking to him, i am on charlies end of this problem and i feel that i am neglecting my gf, i used to call her everyday, and send her emails all the time, but recently between work and other responsibilities prior commitments etc, i just cant find the time and i feel bad for doing this, i dont know exactly how to solve this but try to make the extra effort if you really like him to resolve this issue, i will stand by the just talking with him idea ;)

Answer 4

I feel sorry 4 u.It really must hurt. Why don't u ask his friends or others whom are close 2 him that whether he is alright. Since u don't really know the reason 4 this sudden change, u must not judge quickly.Wait 4 a few days 4 him 2 realise what he had done has effected u.(if his truly in love with u)

Answer 5

How long have the two of you been together? If it is anything under a year, then i would suspect that its about time that things will be going their own direciton. It could be other issues, such as work, stress, or other personal issues. you need to ask him what is going on, and why the change in behavior. I am sure his answers will tell you, even the things not said by him, and go with your instincts.

Answer 6

Talk to him about it, ask him what is on his mind, because it sounds like something is. Another tactic to try is to ignore him also so he can see what life is like without you and if it was great, he would return and start calling again.

I would stick with actually talking to him about it. Do it over lunch or something informal, act like it is not a big deal even though it is. Ask him what is on his mind and ask him if there is anything you can do to help.

Answer 7

I dunno...try talking to him. You'll find communication is necessary if you ever want a relationship to go anywhere. Maybe he thought you didn't really appreciate it so he was wasting his time. Maybe things are happening and he is just incredibly busy. It doesn't necessarily mean a bad thing, but if you don't ask you won't know.

Answer 8

He's probably grown out of that nauseating state of infatuation. That's what romance is and it's not love. If he doesn't even include you in his life though, you should talk to him. If your young, he's probably over you. Teenagers are in love with infatuation.

Answer 9

a pretend boyfriend could supply you pretend presents. Imaginary presents do no longer sound as efficient.....and being out on the pretend streets sounds extra suitable than being out on the imaginary streets. Imaginary streets make it appear as if, "Poof!" .....you have only disappeared :(

Answer 10

baby girl realize that hes not interested anymore and let him go ... if he wants thing the way they used to be let him show you ... dont bow down

Answer 11

ask him wats going on..maybe he has a problem..just ask him..im sur if doesn't want to hurt ur feelings he'll tell u d truth..