Or what can I say her about my feelings. I do not propose her now.So what can I do now.I am getting mad allready.I am now 16years old.
2006-11-19 18:43:25 · 28 answers · asked by Messi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you better be careful when you turn 18 and she is 15. she will still be a minor and thats jail bait if anyone wants to cause trouble for you.
2006-11-19 18:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sorry to say, but you're heading for trouble. Both of you. I guess you guys have no idea what marriage really is. You're too young and probably are watching all these happy end movies out there which only show the good side of marriage. Have you two wondered where you're going to live at? Can you support her? Do you have a stable job? Do you have enough money for your monthly bills? Do you have a car? Can you drive already? Did you talk to your parents and hers about this decision? Do you think when/if you marry you're going to live with your parents or hers? That's not a good thing. You see, there are zillions of questions to consider. Hope this will help you wake up and see that we don't live in wonderland, unfortunately. We all want to be happy and be with the one we love, but life ain't that simple. I'm 30 yrs old now and have been married for 5 yrs and wish I had waited more. This is the time you both should be concerned about studying, having fun with friends, enjoying your parents and life itself. If you do marry her now you will not be happy in a long term, believe me. I hope you make the right decision about that.
2006-11-20 03:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on...you dont wanna ruin your life, you are a baby, how old? 16! and she is 13!!! gosh!!! Do not propose anything, just keep studying, go to college, be somebody someday. This is wonderful world, please dont ruin your life now...No wait, you dont wanna do that, I'm 20 yrs old and definitelly not thinking about it, I go to college and I'm a sophmore now, two more yrs and I'll be done...see? after that I "can" get marry, if I find the right guy and if I can support myself of course.
2006-11-20 02:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your way to young to be thinking about marrige. you havent even graduated high school or gone to college. think about how u wouldnt be stable enough in finance to support a wife and all the responsibilities of a marraige. not to mention there is something wrong with you, 16 dating a 13 year old. grow up. cant you get anyone your age? besides this girl is 13 not near enough matured to be with you let alone getting married. are you crazy?
2006-11-20 02:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by linderlou2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you propose to her...then what? Are you going to get married? Are you going to get a place together? What are you getting mad for? Maybe instead of proposing, you should try some anger management classes and think about you and your baby of a girlfriend finishing school. How about that?
2006-11-20 02:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until she's 18 years old. Shame on you for thinking that! I'm 22 and living a healthy lifestyle. WITHOUT someone to talk to every day. Come on, get a reality check and know that there is no way that 8th grade girls are ready to THINK about marriage!
2006-11-20 02:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really care for her, tell her that you plan to spend the rest of ur lives together and that you are willing to wait for her till she comes of age and really able to decide what she wants legally so you wont anger her parents as well. if you love her you wait for her and you help her be the best at school so u guys can have a great future with a good income.
remeber education equals good job and good income which means u can get her more stuff and spend more time with her
good luck honey
2006-11-20 02:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by evildoodleeer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i'm 18 and don't plan on getting married for about 10 years. You need to see the world, travel, experience life. in two years you will be in college and she'll be a sophomore in high school at most. Your love is blinding you from your future.
2006-11-20 02:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think you should even be thinking of marriage, you are both far to young. Wait for about 5-7 years and see how you both feel then, if it's meant to be it will happen, there is really no rush.
2006-11-20 02:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by ness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a decent apartment
A full time job
Pay your own bills
And a steady savings account
Then you will be ready for a marriage.
2006-11-20 02:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by Ellis26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋