we have been together for like 3 years and we get along great and love each other a lot, but since i started my second job we dont get to talk on the phone much at all....only a text message when we get the chance and we dont really live close enough to see each other everyday, but he works til 2:30 through the week days and them comes home and plays video games for the most part and when i send him a message it takes him forever to answer me and when he does finally answer, it a very short answer like hehe or thats good or that sucks...it seems like he doesnt want to talk to me and he always wants me to open up more, but how can i if i feel like this? Please help me!
2006-11-19 18:40:37 · 8 answers · asked by bubblygirl2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
communication is the key. maybe you should invite him ot your place and let him know how u feel. if he loves you and if avoiding you is not his intention, he will comfort you and reassure you that that is not the case. if your feelings of doubt persist after talking to him, listen! it's your female intuition. good luck....
2006-11-19 18:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by bgsfnstldy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously too serious and smothering him. You're both young, and now the relationship is going to end (as it always was). Since you wasted all this time in a fantasy land, dreaming of marrying this loser, instead of working hard in school, you are working two jobs and have no time for this relationship. You're gunna be lucky to find time for a new relationship. What should you do? Dump his *** before he dumps yours, and get back into school so you don't have to flip burgers for 16 hrs a day.
2006-11-20 03:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to make a time to sit down and talk with him about this. But, to help with your mindset, it may be that due to the strange and long work hours on his part, the "gaming" has been a placement in taking his mind off of work, and winding down, which is why you wont get a lot of long winded answers from him. Redirect his winding down towards you, instead of or along with his "gaming".
2006-11-20 02:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by Kris p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him and do NOT take him back until your gut feeling tells you it is ok. If your gut never tells you it is ok to take him back, let go. It is better to mourn the loss of a boyfriend than to stick with him and suffer. You will suffer either way. If you let him go, that suffering will go away and you will find a better boyfriend. If you hang on, you will never be completely happy.
2006-11-20 02:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just avoid HIM. If you avoided him instead, it would either drive him nuts or send the message that it takes more than his crap to get under your skin. Good luck!
2006-11-20 02:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by kimmunism 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you need to get married just to see each other.
2006-11-20 02:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a day off without telling him but find out what his plans are first. youll find out why by giving him 2 surprises .......by coming over
2006-11-20 02:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by that girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time ----------if it does not work itself out-----------he may be ready to move on to someone else!
2006-11-20 02:45:13 · answer #8 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋