qhy do i keep thinking about my ex and i feel sad? does he thiks about me the same or whats happening to me i even have dreams about him...
2006-11-19 18:39:16 · 10 answers · asked by Roxanne24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot depends on how long you have been apart. When a relationship ends it is almost like a death and there is a mourning stage to go through. Only he can answer about how he might think of you. Heck, I'm 39 and there have been times I've had dreams of what we all consider "the one that got away" many times, but it doesn't mean that was my destiny or that I should go try finding him. They are just dreams and are more than likely because some part of your subconcious brought it up into your dreams.
2006-11-19 18:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by TexanBrat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The brain has the capacity to retain emmotional information for a period of three months. After that you slowly forget or should I say , you pay less attention to the memories you mentioned.
I remember I went to Key West and when I returned I vowed I would return and buy a home there. Because of work I never went back and In three months... what was that again??
I have visited Key West 4 time again and I don't have that feelings.
How does this relate to you... after about three months you will be able to see your ex and wonder why the hell did I go out with him. You will find another love,,,,,,, again and again, It's the cycle of life.
let me know how it goes I'm at va3jrj@yahoo.ca
2006-11-20 02:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by va3jrj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can answer if he is thinking about you other than him...
Obviously you don't have the closure you need or you still want to be with him. One reason why you are having dreams is that something is unresolved and your mind is trying to work this out in your dreams. SO that being said think about it hard. Why did you break up? Is there something you needed to say but didn't get to say? What is it about him that you miss? What do you NOT miss? Do you want to get back with him? And if so make sure it's because you really want him back not the 'idea' of him back. And make sure it's not because you think you can 'change' him. Are you sure you aren't feeling this way out of habit and because he is just familar?
Think about it long and hard, search your heart for the answer only you can give. Once you have then you can decide if you want to approach him about getting back together. Or to say what you need to say to have closure and move on.
2006-11-20 02:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by Proud to be APBT 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess i dont really have an answer as to why, but im kinda in that position too. My ex and i were together for almost 5 years and its hard to think about him, and especially since he has been with other people since me and I havent. I thought i was getting over it and dealing with it ok, but i just talked to him tonight and it was very hard, he had someone girl in the background and he said that he was too busy to talk. It sucks, i wish i could just forget about it and not let it bother me so much. .. . . If you ever need to talk just let me know, sorry i am not sure why we feel like this, maybe its because i didnt have enough closure with him, maybe i didnt explain everything to him about how i felt? kellyaortega@yahoo.com good luck and hey write me if you want :)
2006-11-20 02:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by ♣Kellina♣ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a Strong and self confident lady , you must not allow your past come in your happy present . Ex is always ex now , if you try you will get humiliations , forget about reunion . It is better ignore your dream part and live in present to live happily forever .
2006-11-20 02:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. It shows that you haven't move on with your life. Your mind, soul is still lingering in the world where only both of you exist.
This is unhealthy and dangerous! Get out with friends, hang with them, watch movies, clean the house, read books, dance, sing, get a new hobby, meet more new friends. Who knows, you may meet your Mr. Right. Good luck!!!
2006-11-20 02:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by Calvin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are probably in love with him. You should persue your feelings. What do you have to lose? Worst case scenario, he doesn't feel the same as you...but at least you can get some closure. Talk to him. Tell him how you feel. Good luck.
2006-11-20 02:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by shellese2 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your still in love with him deep down inside i would say,, its normal for you to dream of him as well as think of him,as im sure he does you as well, by your photos on your 360,, your a beautiful young woman, another guy wiil come along for you and you'll be able to get on with your life,,,,best wishes ,stinger5906,,,,,,,,,,,,
2006-11-20 03:19:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because everyone gets that feeling when they break up or have a fight - its part of being human.
best thing to do is get over it find other rhings to do to fill up your time till youre ready to date again
2006-11-20 02:42:30 · answer #9 · answered by phur 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you still have unanswered questions between the two of you.........
2006-11-20 02:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋