2006-11-19 18:37:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She sounds pushy and high maintenance. Boy are you in for it.
Just tell her what you said here. Tell her no because you dont know her well enough yet.
2006-11-19 18:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very true.. Be honest. If you are afriad of upsetting her, be honest, but make it positive when you tell her, or sit down soon and tell her in a positive manner. Explain all the things you do feel towards her, and emphasize on it, then explain why it is you may not be ready to say that, in that you are not sure about "love", and that is something you dont want to say without being 100% sure you do, and feelings are not things you can control, but just go along and as they happen, you will share with her. Just make sure to explain all the "wonderful" things you feel about her. She will appreciate you not hosing her with fallacies.
2006-11-20 02:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by Kris p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that love is a very strong emotion and you haven't been with her long enough to get there. Be honest. If you tell her something that you don't feel it will just hurt more in the long run.
2006-11-20 02:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by TexanBrat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. Let her know that you guys haven't been together that long and that you enjoy being around her, but you don't want to risk hurting her by lying to her. Tell her to give you guys some time.
2006-11-20 02:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by dtwnangel04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her the truth, but tell her that you want to take the time to get to know, if you do, to determine if your feelings develop into love.
2006-11-20 02:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by Gina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? You started dating her not knowing if you're falling for her or not? Why are you dating then...
You don't deserve her, let someone who would actually give the world to her date her.
2006-11-20 02:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WORD PLAY! Tell her you love everything about her. I'm falling in love with everything about you.. I never knew I could love so many things about someone.
2006-11-20 02:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by CHUCK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and tell her how you feel. say things my feelings have grown stronger for you but im just not there yet.
2006-11-20 02:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by littlejuicygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth, as much as it hurts or w/e. um... honesty is the most important part of a relationship
2006-11-20 02:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by gumm13b34r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her and tell her it is too soon for you to know that.
2006-11-20 02:43:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋