why would a man rather watch porn than be with his g/f? when his girl is much hotter than porn women and will, has, and wants to do more than porn women? Is it because hes intimadated by her or because he has a problem all of his own? Or is cheating? Give me a clue?
2006-11-19 18:34:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys just like to watch other people doing it rather than they themselves involve in the act. But be careful because excessive addiction to porn may lead to other problems.
Because he has high expectations after watching the porn, he would think no one else could satisfy him the way those actors/actresses perform in the show. Thus, he may also feel himself being unable to satisfy his partner/lover because he is not as great as those actors. And this will lead to depression, emotionally down, lack of self-confident.
Try talk to him.
2006-11-19 18:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humans and more specifically men are very visual creatures. If a beautiful women walks down the street what do the construction workers do across the street? If you told a guy in this dark room that you could not see anything there is a woman that could be a model or the most ugliest girl on the planet…. please go in and have your way with her…. is the guy even going to go in or even think of getting excited? So visual stimuli whether it be a girlie magazine, porn on the net or the real thing…. visually is the same.
The other strong compelling element is something new and different. Men definitely have a strong urge to seek out different women. Now from a biological standpoint this makes a lot of sense. In the animal kingdom its spread your seed to as many as possible therefore guaranteeing your family tree will go forth. Humans have attempted to modify this by becoming monogamous. Seeking new continues on in porn also. What guy is only going to watch one or two porn videos? Answer None… more to run any more visual is needed or it gets boring.
Each guy is wired a little differently here. If a guy's not looking at porn at all then he probably has strong convictions against it or simply does not care. Another group are the guys that don't look at porn but date numerous women (Players) to satisfy their new experience needs. Then there are those that get involved in “deeper” in porn…. they're not likely at all to be seeing a girl on the side (that's a good thing for you) but some women might consider them cheating nevertheless.
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2006-11-20 02:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by GirlsTellAll.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men (and women too) enjoy porn. It is normal to have an interest in it. What you should do, or try, if you wish to curb alot of fights, or even make a better deal of the situation, is ask to be invited to watch with him, then begin to play on it. You, if having a problem, can eventually direct more of his interest towards you, instead of the porn, or make it another interest the both of you may share.
2006-11-20 02:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kris p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I don't know any men that would rather watch porn than be with their girlfriend. I think that is an exception rather than the rule with 'most' men...
Most men like porn that is because they are more visually aroused than women. But a lot of men like their girlfriend to watch porn WITH them. or they watch porn when they can't be with their wife/girlfriend.... I know that if my guy had to chose between watching porn and having me, I am the one he wants to be with. Although I will say I often like to watch porn with him and have a few favorite videos of my own!
2006-11-20 02:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by Proud to be APBT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men think its all normal in the game of life
It degrades women and makes us feel bad why? watch it ?
so u are lowered to his standards???
Plzzzzzzzzzz Dont listen to the others if u choose not 2 u will be blessed in the long run .. to accept someone is lusting after another when u in tight relationship is totally unacceptable if they want porn tell them fine take the porn if the woman says lets both watch it I think its a pity for both them .. if u lust in your heart u have been with them..people r so dumb when it comes to morals it is truly most unbelieveable u do not have to accept it ...
Dump Him ..when u meet your new guy tell him youve had every guy in the world choose porn and u will not accept this
I hope you meet a nice guy ..very few left... :(:(:(
let the rest of them rub their self into hell and oblivion dont stoop to the level of swine
Men R PIGS.....and apparently some women 2...good luck 2 ya...
2006-11-20 02:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by dreamy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for other men, but if my g/f put out every time I wanted to get off we wouldn't ever get anything else done and I'd wear her out. Sometimes she's tired and has a "headache" and I like to indulge in a fantasy and get off without her. Other times she's in the mood and porn is the farthest thing from my mind. She rocks my world, but she can't rock my world all the time. Don't get bent out of shape when a guy is just being a guy... good luck.
2006-11-21 02:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by Zloar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats your problem not only men re doing it even the women are doing it as well..anyways, the answer to your Q is simple..maybe because of the unsatisfaction that the male receives from his partner and would rather watch porn then hanging out with his girl friend....or its because of the high sex appeals of the porn star..sometimes..men seek solitude and want to be alone..not all times they want to be with their GF and the GF should cut him some slack you know...give him a chance to loosen up...
2006-11-20 02:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by Dante-rebillion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marlo Thomas is that you? Oh yeah, that's why I'm with my g/f instead of porn because she does more too! She is also much hotter! I don't know what's wrong with your b/f. Is he by chance watching Wrestling/gay porn?
2006-11-20 02:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by antiekdilur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter how hot their gf is, every guy likes to watch porn. its not that they're cheating or that they don't love their gf. they just like to watch it cuz its considered taboo, so its exciting for them. im a girl and i used to be disgusted by the fact that guys watch porn, but now i know that its not such a big deal. i enjoy watching it too sometimes ;)
2006-11-20 02:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is adicted to sex(porn movies) sounds like.
2006-11-20 02:36:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋