I DONT KNOW WHAT 2 DO I AM 14 AND HE IS 17 AND HE IS CONTROLING AND HE POPS UP AT MY HOUSE WHEN MY MOM IS AT WORK EVEN WHEN HE KNOWS I SAID NO I DONT KNOW WHAT HE WILL DO IF I DUMP HIM BUT I DONT KNOW IF I CAN STAY
2006-11-19 18:32:42 · 21 answers · asked by ♥ tweety ♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweety, you need to dump him. NOW! This could turn into something serious and your boyfriend could put your life in danger. Has he always been controlling? You need to tell someone, because even if you dump him he still could stalk you or hurt you in some way. I have seen to many things on tv or in the newspaper about young women in the same dire situation you are in and their boyfriend ended up taking their lives or hurting them really bad. Don't stay and get away fast. If things get worse after you tell your parents, go to the cops or whoever you need to, to remain safe. Best of luck to you!
2006-11-19 18:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 19:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of this situation before it gets any worse. Talk to someone (an adult) and let them know the situation in case something occurs. When he pops up at your house don't open the door and/or go to a friends house when your mom is at work. Always remember, if you see negative things in a person you are beginning a relationship with, these are your warning signs. Use them to your advantage. Good luck.
2006-11-19 18:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by shellese2 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, first of all, immediately tell your mom everything that has been happening. Then yes, dump him. This guy does not sound like a good one at all. Be careful, and definitely get this guy out of your life asap.
2006-11-19 20:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all he is way to old for you. secondly, dont give into him and give him what he wants if you are not ready. tell an adult he is being controling and about the way things are in your relationship. if he is controling, it could turn into abuse. dont take the time to let that happen. dump him now, and if your scared of what he'll do chances are he has done something to hint that he will hurt you. dont risk it. kick him to the curb. and dont date ne one that isnt your age again. its to dangerous with the worl the way it is today.
2006-11-19 18:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by linderlou2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get rid of him. Don't be afraid, you're strong. Staying in the relationship with him is just giving him the power he has over you. You're only 14, it sounds like he is taking advantage of you... you've got your parents support. No offense, but if he can't find another girl his own age at 17, he is a loser.
2006-11-19 18:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd dump him. If he's controlling now he's not going to change. And things could get a lot worse as well. It usually does when someone is so controlling. good luck to you ;o)
2006-11-19 18:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately leave him. Seventeen?!? yuck, I mean your still 14, date other hot 14 year olds maybe stretch it with 15, you'll be happier in the long run.
2006-11-19 18:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by b_dubs_3030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom that he pops up when she is at work, so she can stay home one day and confront him with you. You should leave him, you deserve better. Good luck, God Bless.
2006-11-19 18:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by DepthsOfMyEyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him. hes too clingy to u if thats what u like i dont!!!!!!! my ex did that too he would show up every day afer school when i said no it got to a point where i broke up with him because seeing him all the time drove me nuts!!!
2006-11-19 18:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by littlejuicygirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋