I was in this serious relationship for 8 months.i love this guy(Jon)with all my heart.We lived in alabama.my sisters and new neice and mother lived in wyoming.i had been to visit them several times.and i had been thinking about moving to wyoming.but i didnt want to leave jon because i loved him and i knew he wouldnt want to move with me.i needed something new,a change.me and jon had been having problems in the last month we dated.and when he basically told me he didnt care n e more i had had enough.so i called my older sister and told her i wanted to move.i went to jon the next day and told him i was moving to wyoming in a week and i couldnt do it n e more.i was the only one trying and i couldnt do it by myself.i bought the ticket that night.the next weekend i was on a plane.and jon didnt even call me or try to see me before i left.it was the hardest thing i have ever had to do.even though i had be thinking about moving already....was i running from my problem when i moved?
2006-11-19 18:30:24 · 6 answers · asked by linderlou2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact that you wanted to be closer to family tells me that, "no, you were not running". It's ok to desire a change and be with family, and I gather that you felt this way, because of the problems you had been having with Jon. I am sorry that you dosn't seem to care. I am wondering if he says this but dosn't mean it. Only time will tell. If he truly misses you, I feel as though he WILL contact you.
I don't believe you were running. If it does burden you, why not wait a few more weeks and then sit down and write him a letter.
Explain that you desired to be near family. Don't use "blaming words like "You didn't seem to care, etc". Express your pain with "I" words. eg, "I felt as though you no longer cared for me,
or I felt as though I needed to do this in my life".
Hopefully, time will tell if he really does care.
If this relationship was not meant to be, then only time will heal your broken heart. Maybe it will be a blessed time to be with your folks and a chance to meet someone new.
Best of Luck!
2006-11-19 18:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you wanted to leave because you were having problems during your last month together and Jon told you he didn't care any more. So the next day you make plans to move and tell Jon. He didn't call or try to see you knowing when you were leaving so it sounds like it was a done deal for him.
It sounds like you are hurting and need a friend or maybe your sister to talk too right now.
Good luck in Wyoming.
2006-11-19 18:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably not, but hey, what's wrong with running from a problem now and again. I mean if you are in a fire I would think running would be a smarter solution that staying and trying to fight it. But irregardless life is too short to have second thoughts. Just believe you made the right decision and it is. It's all subjective anyways.
2006-11-19 18:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by b_dubs_3030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD 4 you. HE MADE up his mind. NOW you move on. AND dont LOOK back. WYO is a good state.
2006-11-19 18:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was bored after the first line.
Keep it simple and short.
2006-11-19 18:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by Rusty 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
who cares?
2006-11-19 18:33:20 · answer #6 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋