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I’m a 22 year old model, and a virgin. I’ve lied about being a virgin ever since I was 13.The reason I’ve lied all these years is because growing up as a model and having model friends who weren’t virgins at the age of 13 or older made me feel like a left out freak. My best friend is the only person who knows the truth about my virginity, and said when I told her 3 years ago: “You are such a liar you don’t act or LOOK like a virgin.” After convincing her I was, and that just because I walk down the runway in a bikini in Paris, London, or NYC, doesn’t mean I’m not a virgin.

2006-11-19 18:10:09 · 21 answers · asked by Bella 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I bet you he'd love it. To be so pretty, I'm sure he thinks that you could get it anytime you wanted from anyone. And for him to see that you deemed him to be the only one worth it..I'm sure it'd make him feel awesome about himself.

Maybe it'd put him at ease because it's not like you'll be comparing him to anybody you had before, he'd be your first and he'll work extra hard to show you a good time.

Just tell him flat out. He definitely will not be angry!

2006-11-19 18:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by koala988 2 · 0 0

Why would he be angry at you for being a virgin. As a fellow 20 something virgin, I think is is respectable and cool that you decided to wait till you are in a steady relationship to decide to loose you virginity. I think your boyfriend might be surprise and happy because he is with a model and a virgin, he would think he is the luckiest man in the world. Besides, I understand why you didn't tell anybody about your sexual experience because it is private, embarrassing or maybe you are shy. Anyway, just relax and tell your boyfriend the truth, good luck.

2006-11-19 18:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 0 0

I was a late bloomer more than you , so yes I can understand all the girls our age had already been there done that several times and I too was out dancing outgoing and like you said people i gues wouldn't think that of us. My experience with my boyfirend at the time he found out as he wanted me to do something and pushed my head some place and i didn't know what he wanted i thought he wanted me to lay my head on his stomach. and so he explained a little more and then i said i have never done this. then he asked me if i was a virgin and i said yes. then he changed never touched me and was a complete gentleman and always wanted to make sure i was okay with everything and not going to far this or that. so it hink your boyfriend wont' be angry either mine wasn't he was acutally thrilled and happy.

So your boyfriend will find out when he trys something on you and you dont' know what to do or how to do it. thats usually a give away for them then he will ask you and you tell him the truth.

2006-11-19 18:39:21 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0 0

Virginity is an old concept, but it is an ideology that you have chosen to adhere to. It is a noble and pure idea that American society has different values of. Forget your 'boyfriend'. Find a real man who makes you feel comfortable all the time and this gift will be honestly appreciated and cherished. Sounds like your current player boyfriend will just chalk another virgin onto his belt. Even still, if you truly decide to give a gift, give it freely, don't put expectations on him or his actions. Trust your instincts, if you feel this will make him angry, then he doesn't deserve this precious of all gifts you can give. This is truly once in a lifetime.

2006-11-19 18:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by Drgeeforce 3 · 0 0

He wouldnt be angry! Whether you are a virgin or not it shouldnt make any difference to him. I'm also 22 and a virgin, I just told the girl who I'm close to about this, I wasnt scared she'd be mad I was scared that she'd hate me for lying and then when I told her she was totally fine about it and even said the fact I am a virgin is attractive. I'm sure your boyfriend will be fine.

2006-11-20 04:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Such a sad world we live in. You should be proud. You can have your choice of top rate moral responsible men. Don't fall into the crowd, you stand head and shoulders above the rest!

2006-11-19 18:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

what's so incorrect approximately being a virgin? I say fee your virginity and in basic terms tell your bf which you're nevertheless a virgin and elect extra time to handle your guy or woman emotions. he's for specific to get mad yet whilst he's an incredible guy he will understand you and your subject yet whilst he starts off pressuring you to have intercourse with him even once you clarify that to him, then unload him. an incredible guy will understand and not think of that while you're a variety you're able to desire to have had intercourse with everyone already. you're able to desire to easily have intercourse once you're 2 hundred% specific you're waiting, that way it's going to be suitable intercourse and not painful intercourse.

2016-12-29 06:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by purinton 3 · 0 0

Model.. Virgin. Why would any guy be mad? To have both of those.. is like a dream come true. =O He should feel extremely lucky if he gets a piece of that pie.

2006-11-19 18:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by Cody B 2 · 0 0

Being a virgin shouldn't make him angry. But being lied to might. It's time to kiss and tell and be an adult about it.

2006-11-19 18:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by Cindy 2 · 0 0

I know how modelifically terrible it can be for us model virgins. I'm sure if you explain your virginity crisis to him, he may find it in his model loving heart to forgive the modeling you, especially since you're a model.

2006-11-19 18:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by ~Leading Lady~ 4 · 0 0

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