Becuase of my cultural and religous beliefs i dont date or do anything like that, but i still like to look sharp (i'm just real preppy) and i get alot of attention from girls becuase its high school and people get bored, sometimes girls will do stuff like i guess flirt with me or try to touch me and stuff......i dont know how to reject people though. I always come off like a jerk, one time a girl said flat out I LOVE YOU and i didnt even know her this was in middle school and i had less experience so i just ran. Anyone have a better solution?
2006-11-19 16:49:46 · 13 answers · asked by john s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um...I don't know...maybe add some class to that 'preppy' look your sportin there, tiger. Smiling and telling a girl thank-you, is not going against any cultural or religious belief that I ever heard of.
2006-11-19 16:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by frigidx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could start acting like you're gay.
Or you could just dress down, don't bathe as much, wear your hair long and unkempt.
Or you could take lessons on how to converse, how to respond to people. This could be very good for the job market.
2006-11-19 16:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should not be scared and say, i don't know you.
or if you like a girl go talk to her but only when shes alone.Or were different clothes.
2006-11-19 16:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with them! Tell them the truth, about your beliefs. Your not rejecting people if it's how you feel. PRAY about it.
2006-11-19 18:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by cccbaby123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GAY GAY GAY, that is all i have to say!
In no culture is dating with girls prohibited IN NO CULTURE!
From Pakistan to Kazakstan, From China to Australia From Japan TO USA from UK To Russia..
Seriously i think you need to come to grips with your own fear and grow some balls.
2006-11-19 16:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by GhandiDahandi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeh, go ahead and come on out of the closet.
2006-11-19 16:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I W OULD JUST BE HONEST WITH THE THE ONE THAT
WANT TO START SOMETHING THAT BEAUSE OF YOUR
BELIEF THAT YOU DONT DATE ETC. THERE NOTHING WRONG WITH HOW YOU FEEL. AND IT NOTHING WRONG'
WITH LOOKING YOUR BEST. DONT RUN AWAY JUST
POINT BLANK TELL THEM THE REAL DEAL. IF THEY CARE
FOR YOU THEY WILL RESPECT YOUR DECISION.
2006-11-19 16:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep running
2006-11-19 16:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by grassmanfive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just say thanks, it is flatering, let them know you hear them and then let them know your happy being single right now. they'll liove you more but you wont alienate them and when the time comes who knows one of them may be 'the one'
2006-11-19 16:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by much2big4school 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
girls are gonna want u cuz ur untouchable..if they cant get what they want they'll try harder and harder
2006-11-19 16:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetheart88 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋