You have to talk to an adult! Preferably your school counselor. This is way to serious and beyond your abilities. Make sure you talk to someone as soon as possible. Believe me, you don't want to blame yourself if something happens to her! Please ask for an adult's help!
2006-11-19 16:49:10
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answered by smarties 6
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You are a good friend. Now you need to be her protector and inform someone that can give her the help she is needing and silently asking for. Realize that if she didn't want you to know you would have Never see the cuts. She may deny it at first and be very angry but she wants you to get her help. It would be better to have an angry friend that a dead one. She will thank you when she is feeling like her old self. Been there with a Friend of mine. He came back from the war with ghosts.
2006-11-19 16:54:30
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answered by koko 2
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Gee; she doesn't even talk with u about it? AThat's a tough matter for u alone. And it might be a call for help. I think the only way is talk to her,so u will have a clue about what to do or how ask for help.U can't deal with this all by your self! I'm from Brazil but lived in the States for a while.MY email is nenon_andrade@yahoo.com.br, contact me whenever u need, nenon
2006-11-19 17:24:08
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answered by nenon_andrade 2
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I went through the same thing with a good friend of mine. What I learned was that her state of mind was not healthy and she needed professional help to get to the root of the problem.
You should tell an adult for sure, but if you want to talk to your friend also, just tell her you are there to talk or listen if she wants to. She probably feels like no one cares and you don't want to come at her and make her feel defensive. But definetly tell someone who can get her help, asap!
2006-11-19 16:58:33
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answered by Tricksta-Vic 2
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You must inform someone.
Don't try to handle this yourself. If the unthinkable happens, you'll feel guilty the rest of your life and will constantly second guess everything you said and did.
The best thing you can do for her is tell someone who can get her help. The second best thing you can do for her is be there for support.
2006-11-19 17:05:37
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answered by Anonymous
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approach her with extreme caution especially if she has the cutting implement in her hands! I'm sorry to poke **** about your friend I'm getting sick and tired about this bullshit called self abuse ,half these idiots are only doing it for attention or to score brownie points with all there ******** mates at school buy showing them or she really is psychotic and needs to be admitted into a hospital you know your friend better than us you decide!
2006-11-19 17:11:10
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answered by tori 3
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Does she have good parents who would understand? My daughter cut herself, and I was devastated. Luckily her friends told me and we got her some counseling. She has never done it again but she had to get professional help.
This is serious. If the parents won't be helpful, I hope you have a school counselor who will help.
2006-11-19 16:57:04
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answered by BluedogGirl 5
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start out the conversation and ask her where did the cuts come from, if you are certain that sh is a cutter CONFRONT HER HEADON. Put her in an awkward position.
That will squeeze the juice out of her, make sure though that she knows you are genuinely worried..
2006-11-19 16:49:51
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answered by GhandiDahandi 3
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ummmm im sorry but this is a place where you have to inform somene like an adult...if you are really a friend to her than you would do that. it might not be what you want to hear but trust me-its the only way to help her
2006-11-19 16:48:28
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answered by santacruzhippie 2
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before you approach her go and talk to someone that is a speclist in that field. They can tell you how to help youre friend. But please be very careful about how you do this you dont know what they might be planning to do.
2006-11-19 16:59:33
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answered by Anonymous
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