reason being... i wanna be baptized before i go into the military... and before i get married... do i have to convert as well.. whats the steps of being converted?
2006-11-19 16:43:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Religion is personal. If she gets mad then she doesnt respect you.
2006-11-19 16:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first step to converting would be to contact your parish. Normally there would be some inquiry classes and then you would start RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults) where you would learn all about the Catholic faith. This is a fairly long process, usually about a year, with everyone being received into the Church at Easter. If you have time considerations because of joining the military, I would talk to the priest to see what other options might be available.
As to whether or not your girlfriend would be mad, I don't really think there would be any cause to be mad. The Catholic Church does recognize baptisms by other Christian denominations, provided they were done in the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. I was baptized in the Baptist Church as a child and did not need to be "rebaptized" when I became a Catholic as an adult.
For more information, take a look at
http://www.catholic.com/default.asp
2006-11-20 00:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by anabasisx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A truly Christian Baptism is valid regardless of the denomination. The Catholic Church recognizes the validity of baptisms that take place in other Christian denominations. Your girlfriend, if she is aware of the teachings I have shared with you, should not have a problem with your grandfather baptizing you.
You do not have to convert to Catholicism in order to marry your girlfriend. However, since at least on of you is Catholic, the wedding ceremony must take place in a Catholic Church.
On a personal note, converting to Catholicism would be a nice romantic gesture, and a good move on your part Spiritually speaking.
2006-11-22 10:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by Daver 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it that you plan to become a Roman Catholic before you marry your girlfriend. That is a good idea, because you will both share the same beliefs and family customs for your children. And to be married in the RC church to a RC you need to be one.
I see nothing wrong with you having your grandfather baptize you as long as he is an ordained minister and is going to do it in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. You can be baptized by one Church and later a member of another. (I think you mean that your grandfather is a Protestant. Catholics are Christian too.)
To become an RC, you have to take adult catechism classes and then if you are not baptized, you are, and then confirmed. I would take to a priest at your girlfriends church ASAP.
2006-11-20 00:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by tonks_op 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is your choice to be baptized, not your girlfriends. Just because she practices the catholic faith doesn't mean you are required to. She really has no right to get upset with you. You were of a certain faith before you met her and you do not HAVE TO convert to catholicism if you do not want to. Now, if you really want to convert, then maybe you should hold off on the baptism but other than that...I commend you for taking the steps to gaining religious salvation before you go into the military which i imagine one must need religion to truly make it through. Good luck with the military and your girlfriend.
2006-11-20 00:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by ALeoStar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Catholics are Christians. As long as you are baptized in the name of the Blessed Trinity your gf should not object. The Catholic Church recognizes baptisms of other faiths as long as they are in the name of the Blessed Trinity. Your gf should be proud of the fact that you want to be baptized. If you are truly interested in joining the Catholic Church call you local church. They will give you info on their RCIA program (Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults). Those are the classes you will need to take. They may even let you take private instructions depending on the church and priest. I hope everything works out for you.
God bless,
Stanbo
2006-11-20 01:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by Stanbo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should she be mad at you? you have the rights to be baptized by whomever you choose. she should respect that, and if she can't respect a small matter like this, reconsider whether you want to spend the rest of your life with someone like that. And also, being baptized by your grandpa probably means you're close to him. how many more chances do you have to be baptized by him? all i know is, i never had that chance, though i wish i could turn back time. but its all too late now cos he's long gone.
2006-11-20 00:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by Hanna 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, I think your faith should come before your relationship. Since you're worried about her getting mad I'm assuming you haven't talked much about your religions. You really should sit down and find some common ground if you're getting serious or want to get married someday. Oh and by the way, Catholics are Christians.
2006-11-20 00:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jaclyn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First Catholic should NOT be distinguished from Christian!!!
Protestant vs Catholic sure.
Since she's already your girlfriend, I'm sure she'd understand.
Yes, you'd probably have to be confirmed in the faith as well, which means taking a course and affirming some stuff.
2006-11-20 00:49:24 · answer #9 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she wants what is best for you and loves you, she will be happy about your baptism.
All it takes to be converted is: baptism, confess and accept Jesus is Lord, confess your sins to God and pray for the spirit to give you a new look on life.
Bless you brother
David
2006-11-20 01:00:30 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes to be baptized also you will not be able to marry in her faith unless you convert
2006-11-20 00:50:02 · answer #11 · answered by dianehaggart 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋