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I just had a giant arguement with my boy friend..... I screamed I hate you like 7 times and he pretended to be a therapist and was all: now how may I help u my young child










help?

2006-11-19 16:42:59 · 20 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

AND ALSO HES ACTING VERY CHILDISH NOT ME HES MAKING A K=JOKE OUT OF IT ALLL

2006-11-19 16:45:52 · update #1

20 answers

hell he's the one gettin laid by you i hate him too

2006-11-19 16:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

When boyfriends act as therapists is not good thing, even when you're hysterical. That's annoying and mostly of the time it's because they find your behavior "childish" or they think their superior. I've had those. And who hasn't ever had a tantrum?! No one is perfect.
Calm down, tell him you don't like him to act like that and if you didn't mean the stuff you say, apologize with honesty.

2006-11-20 00:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by GN 3 · 0 0

Jess- If I can be frank with you, I can hear fiddle music being played. Your being played like a fiddle, move on don't see him any more! You may be in for a rough ride with this one I do not know what sparked the fight but if you hate him what else do you need Hello girl-reality check! Good Luck Life is to short believe me! Sorry your hurt-You can tell me more I'm Here- Blinker

2006-11-20 00:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If someone affects you in such a negative way that you scream at them in the first place ... there is a big problem. He seems like a person who enjoys taunting you (which obviously has brought out the worst in you). Get away from this person.

2006-11-20 00:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by lesliejay63 3 · 0 0

you and your boyfriend need to make a deal. You won't yell and scream when your mad, and he won't be sarcastic.
Learn to argue fair
You need to maintain control. You do not have the license to be childish, abusive or immature.
Take it private and keep it private, don't go telling everyone.
Keep it real. Don't call names, don't bring up last weeks incident.
Try to remember you won't always win, agree or compromise and sometimes it's better to let it go.
If you owe an apology, say it and mean it.

2006-11-20 00:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by shell_b_101 2 · 0 0

You can't be that old if all you can scream at him is that you hate him... You should of talked it out instead of jumping that way.. It sounds very stupid to me... If I was him I would just break up with you and move on... You don't just yell out I hate you for no reason!!!!

2006-11-20 00:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by sweetchic 2 · 0 0

It sounds as though he enjoys incensing you and patronizes you to do do. Screaming "I hate you" however doesn't seem to be the way to convince him you are able to pose a reasonable suggestion or conduct a productive conversation.

2006-11-20 00:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by Faerie loue 5 · 0 0

i think he's really a serious and a very understanding boyfriend. maybe you just need some space so . . . later on, it'll work out. its normal gurl. in a relationship. .. ups and downs are always present . . . you can do it!.... its just a matter of time. you're really lucky to have him. ^_^

dont worry i think he did not mind you saying the ihate you thing . . . hehehehe . . .

2006-11-20 00:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by twinkles candy cane lips 1 · 0 0

Well...7 sounds like the lucky number to probably drop this relationship. Mustering up the strength to say it once is hard enough. but seven times....sounds like youve made up your mind. id let this guy go. sounds like there's nowhere to go from here but downhill.

sorry if this isnt what you want to hear...

2006-11-20 00:53:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well, if you love him don't say I hate you. He's making light of the situation because he probably loves you and doesn't want to get mad or hurt. Just talk normal to him.

2006-11-20 00:50:57 · answer #10 · answered by I am a Muppet 4 · 0 0

would u rather he'd walked away and never spoken to you again.... hes showing maturity by not taking u seriously......... joke back at him and get over it there are worst things in the world

2006-11-20 00:49:10 · answer #11 · answered by juicylucie60 1 · 0 0

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