I keep meeting all the wrong guys. I've two boyfriends cheat on my for the same girl. To make matters worse she lives down the street from me. I've never had a long term relationship were a guy has be committed and been faithful. When i was 16 i was on and off for 8 month with this one guy i thought i loved. One night i sneaked out and we tryed having sex let's just say it didn't work. He couldn't get it in lol. It was three in the morning and i asked him to walk me home and he said nooo. I ended walking 2mile home in the cold. After that night he never called Two days later he tells me at school he doesen't want a serious relationship. Two weeks later he was going out with this younger chick. I could gooo on and on about all my bad encounters. Lately I've been running into guys that are not over their Ex but still want to be close with me. I've never once had a guy give me flowers. I'm 18 good looking a virgin and i have so much to give to. Give me any kind of advice or comments.
2006-11-19 16:36:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All I can tell you is this, there are guys out there that want exactly what you want. The problem is they aren't in one place, it should be that easy. Sometimes the guy is afraid of rejection so he may not make the first step. In any event,Consider it a blessing that that guy couldn't "get it in" had he, you would have regretted it. Now you see what you almost gave yourself away to.
The key to getting the right guy is knowing your own value and worth as a woman. You seem to be somebody who would make a great girlfriend and one day a great wife. You have alot to offer, and there's only a certain type of guy that is deserving of you.I know the pressure is great on you to have a guy, but at any cost? If a guy wants to have you he has to prove that he can be trusted with your emotions as well as your body. Don't lower your standards or stoop to giving your body and soul to some idiot who doesnt have a clue about what true love is. Make wise choices if they cheated on their other ladies they'll do it to you. And once they find you're not giving away the goodies under any circumstances they'll leave you alone, but there is that one guy that will see you are the one he's been waiting for and trust me me you will not have any trouble with him being committed. I was one of those guys who found a lady who was just like you and it was worth the wait
2006-11-19 17:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by seer161 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would say you have a set pattern. You look for a certain type of guy! Nothing wrong with that, we all do. If you really want a nice guy! Then start looking for a different type of man. If you want flowers and romance in your life. Then its time to change from, these little punks, to a real man. When you don find one, you will know it. If he really loves you he will respect you. Dont let a one night stand take your virginity. You will regret it one day. I am not saying wait until your married, but that is the best choice. I am saying make sure he really loves you and that it means something to you both. Good lUck
2006-11-19 16:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. You are only 18 you are still so young. It will happen. Don't rush to get too old too quickly. You have had bad experiences but these are just lessons in ways of relationships. At least by meeting guys that have problems, you now know what to look for, and are shaping a better idea of what you want. Relax, Enjoy life and a good partner will come to you with time.
2006-11-19 16:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by Maverick off Top Gun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait. But your probably like most your age and looking for the hot guys and not the nice guys. You want some one that is good to you try mister plain james. The guy you think is a geek, he wil treat you well all of the time not just until he finds someone else.
2006-11-19 16:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is you in the picture you are beautiful. What guy wouldn't want to settle down with you. Let me tell you a secret. You are only 18 honey you will have alot of these problems. Like i told my best friend give yourself time they will come to you when you least expect it. It seems like you are trying to hard but i can understand, Who wants to be alone..No one. I hope that when you find mr right that he treats you like a queen cause you sure deserve it. Good Luck..And he is out there waiting for but it's not the right time for you to meet him. When that time comes he will come out of nowhere. Just be on your guard cause who knows how soon it will happen.
2006-11-19 16:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by Dawn H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest for you to slow down a little bit and just focus on having fun. You have to understand that boys around your age don't know what they really want or they just want one thing. Get to know someone and take your time. All the good guys take their time and want to get to know you first before anything happens. All the bad boys are in a rush to sleep with you and you can figure this out pretty quick.
2006-11-19 16:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres a saying, goes something like:
If you keep doing what you've always done,
You're only going to get what you've always gotten.
Honestly, I think that gaining a relationship is more important to you than it should be right now. I'd recommend focusing on yourself, continuing educating ?, Career ? If you are admireable, you become more desireable, and the guys will come to you.
2006-11-19 16:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by Justin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop focusing on giving it away, where are you mixing? seriously if you want a good guy that will treat you right then you need to look and see where guys like that are, any girl can get laid but there more to life than that, don't ruin a forming relationship, give it time to grow
2006-11-19 16:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by much2big4school 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your really pretty..but maybe you dress a little seductively..giving the guys the wrong impression...and your to nice...Hmmm your Young Hold On You have your whole life ahead of You!!! Dont settle for any man....and dont be desperate..
2006-11-19 16:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by missamerican_pie007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STOP LOOKING !!! yoour too young. enjoy life and love will find you, granted it may take a few years but it will. your too young to be in a serious relationship anyway youll just regret it later.
2006-11-19 16:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by scorpion06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋