okay, i went to a fast food place to pick my younger cousin up something to eat, and a few weeks ago me and my friends were talking about the type of guys (look wise) we like. and at the fast food place there was a guy who looked JUST LIKE the guy i describe! so my friends and i thought it was (call us crazy) fate. so i need help, because i dont know how to talk to him and he doesnt know me. i havent ever done this stuff before (dating). not because i wasnt allowed, but because i wanted to wait till it ment something. so help please! i would really like to talk to this guy. we already thought we could go study there ever so many weeks. but i need a bit more help from people with experience!
2006-11-19 16:33:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS. im not young, im just inexperienced.
2006-11-19 16:43:57 · update #1
Since he works at the burger place he has to be nice to customers so be a customer. Smile at him. Make jokes about him being your favorite cashier or the fries he made tasting better than others. If he wears a name tag, call him by name. You might even ask to speak to his supervisor and then tell the supervisor what an excellent job he is doing.
2006-11-19 16:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you sound kinda young, so I don't know how much I can help you but I'll try. You don't need to do anything super to get this guy's attention. If you're the type of girl he'd be interested in, he'll notice. Just say hello when you see him. If you're in there studying a lot with your friends, he'll remember you. So say, hi, what's your name? How are you? Maybe if you sense he enjoys talking to you. You can tell him he's cute. And if he isn't interested, then fate or not, it isn't meant to be. Sometimes fate can throw us curveballs and make us see something that really isn't there so don't get too crazy. But he may like you and you two may hit it off. Just say hello. Boys are just as scared and idiotic when it comes to romance as women are. Be strong and make the first move. A simple hello, nothing to it.
2006-11-19 16:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.o. this one is easy. :) If you have an order, make it, and afterwards, ask for his name and number (as if it were a part of your order). He'd be suprised because of how confident you were when you asked, and he'd most likely be flattered. Most men are likely to be turned on to women who are confident and straight forward. They also like women who know what they want, and aren't afraid to take chances (like doing it in front of a lot of people...) when it comes to getting it. When he gives you his number (which he should), be flirty (but don't overdo it), smile and tell him your name after your order is up. He'll find it cute and he'll probably look forward to talking to you. Good Luck. The Force Is With You. ;-)
2006-11-19 16:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by ♥aNgeL eYeS♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go where he can see you, look at him, and smile at him. He will notice you!
Meeting new people never gets easy with experience, if you really hope to meet someone, it always makes you nervous.
Most guys are extremely flattered a girl wants to talk with them. He will be thrilled.
If you feel to shy to speak, make up a business card with your email address and name, and slide it over to him when he approaches you.
2006-11-19 16:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by Al 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so if u hav decided then work ove that, i mean go and talk to him abt anythng in the wrold to begin wid and wd the kinda response he givs u can obviously make out if he is interested or not,like supposingly u meet him in restaurant agn then u can jst go and ask him abt the dish he has ordered like"may i knw how does it taste like actually i wanna order sumthng diff. this time"
2006-11-19 16:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by vish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up to him n tell introduce urself.. tell him that u have seen him before n would like to get to know him more.... Ask if he cares to join u n ur friends if he says yes then its a good start n mayb later on things will get hot n heavy... but if he says no then i think he is jus not interested.
2006-11-19 16:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you go to the shop give him a short note, inviting him over lunch or a picnic.
2006-11-19 16:42:22 · answer #7 · answered by notProudatAll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just order somthing and start talking to him, its easy. jsut take a deep breath and go. and what can you lose by doing it. i mean if you never say anythign to him hes never gonna notice you.
go for it girl!!
U can do it.
Good luck<33
2006-11-19 16:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by FairChild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hi! Ask his name. How did you meet your gal friends? That's a start.
2006-11-19 16:38:43 · answer #9 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach him and say Hello.
He now knows you exist.
Introduce yourself and say he is handsome or whatever. Ask for his number or get him to call you.
2006-11-19 16:39:19 · answer #10 · answered by f1antasyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋